“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fu*k buddy to GF? this post is a lil long

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HaHaHaHa me with a gf means:

-No more sarging
-No more sex with random hotties
-No more sex with fu*k buddies
-No more clubbinggggg :mad:

Fu*k my dads going to be mad. Bringing a 1/3 Asian girl home. My dads like:

"Ninja i dont want you to bring any blacks or asians home"

Now im going to sound like a AFC constantly asking realationship questions since i hardly know **** about GFs.

Ah well ims ure u guys will help LoL

Ninja out
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Inquire
gasp!

congrats black italian congrats!

when i was reading the posts and stuff, it was like a movie. make a movie and get rich!
Get rich? me? nahhh rich does'nt suit me.

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
HaHaHaHa me with a gf means:

-No more sarging
-No more sex with random hotties
-No more sex with fu*k buddies
-No more clubbinggggg :mad:

Fu*k my dads going to be mad. Bringing a 1/3 Asian girl home. My dads like:

"Ninja i dont want you to bring any blacks or asians home"

Now im going to sound like a AFC constantly asking realationship questions since i hardly know **** about GFs.

Ah well ims ure u guys will help LoL

Ninja out
No more clubbing?

HANG ON.

What? Who said in a relationship you can't do what you want when you like. Go clubbing if thats what you like to do bro.

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Originally posted by Blazer
No more clubbing?

HANG ON.

What? Who said in a relationship you can't do what you want when you like. Go clubbing if thats what you like to do bro.

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The thing is the main thing i enjoy at clubs is pickign up. So now that i can't pickup theres no real point to go.

I cant imagine clubbing with my GF. What am i going to do just dance?. Il go occasionaly with my mates and wing for them but for the most part me clubing days are over.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
The thing is the main thing i enjoy at clubs is pickign up. So now that i can't pickup theres no real point to go.

I cant imagine clubbing with my GF. What am i going to do just dance?. Il go occasionaly with my mates and wing for them but for the most part me clubing days are over.

Ninja out
Sorry but is this ninja?

Your sounding like an AFC. No ****. Dude how does this change now that you are together with the girl? You can't go and **** girls obviously (if your faithful) but it doesn't mean you can't still enjoy the game. Have fun with your mates, dance, enjoy the time.

From the sounds of things your packing up shop and giving yourself to her. Probably exactly the opposite of what kept you with her (space, other girls in your life, etc).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bro me an AFC lol NEVER. Ninja can not become a AFC but i do belive in staying faithful so i can't pickup. Picking up is half the fun of clubbing i cant imagine going and not picking up. Il try it this weekend il go to a club have a few drinks hang dance and il wing for my mates see if its fun.

The thing is i dont think il find it fun if i can't pickup i could be wrong though. All i know is i don't want to be one of thos guys that brings his gf along everywhere. My mates use to do it and it was so annoying.

Anyway as i said il try clubbing this week without pickign up and let use know how it goes. I might have some fun afterall.

P.S Im not turning AFC

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am I reading this correctly?

should I go back to sleep and wake up again to make sure I am on Earth? :)



From the sounds of things your packing up shop and giving yourself to her. Probably exactly the opposite of what kept you with her (space, other girls in your life, etc).


again this isnt true.

stop reading from some artible, post or Dj bible..thats tells you this crap.

women want a sensative man, caring man, loving man, fun man, confident man......

they dont want a pushover.
 

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Hahahaha man Friv im not a sensetive guy i never will be. She likes me anyway so who cares.

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Great

hey if you feel that strongly about it then go ahead-I was just going on what I read-good to you! :)
 

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Re: Great

Originally posted by Freeman
hey if you feel that strongly about it then go ahead-I was just going on what I read-good to you! :)
Npz man i did'nt describe her well enough anyway.

Ninja out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey man. You can TOTALLY do the first and last things on your list.

There is nothign wrong with sarging, and there is nothing wrong with clubbing while you have a GF. As long as there are no make out sessions, or grinding or sex, your fine!

Think of it this way:
Now that you have a GF, you don't need to think abotu the pickup. You can try some really ridiculous openers and see what the reaction is. It'll be hilarious.
 

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Originally posted by nishbuk
Hey man. You can TOTALLY do the first and last things on your list.

There is nothign wrong with sarging, and there is nothing wrong with clubbing while you have a GF. As long as there are no make out sessions, or grinding or sex, your fine!

Think of it this way:
Now that you have a GF, you don't need to think abotu the pickup. You can try some really ridiculous openers and see what the reaction is. It'll be hilarious.
exactly

and if you dont , you will turn soft and one day if she dumps you , you will then be at square 1

as often said its harder to keep something than get it , the easy part is over for you now
 

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When I finally went exclusive with my girlfriend, I was really happy with things in the beginning, but now it's kind of dull...same ole crap same ole day same ole week. I went clubbing with my girlfriend once and it was BORING. I wanted to dance with every chick there, but I couldn't. Blahhh now that you've opened pandora's box...good luck bro.
 

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When I finally went exclusive with my girlfriend, I was really happy with things in the beginning, but now it's kind of dull...same ole crap same ole day same ole week. I went clubbing with my girlfriend once and it was BORING. I wanted to dance with every chick there, but I couldn't. Blahhh now that you've opened pandora's box...good luck bro.
ur also 19.....

im gonna be 23 in 3 weeks!


thats a huge diff.u shouldnt have a serious gf.
 

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You can still go clubbing. Just think "catch and release".
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good ideas if i go i can pickup as long as i dont give her my number make out or fu*k her. This is going to be fun im going to walkup to the hottest girl in the club and say some fu*ked up outlandish **** an try get her intrested.

Yeh i wont stop clubbing and im not going to take her clubbing looooooool boringgg shes going to be hanging onto me all night.

Ninja out
 
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