"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Energizer

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So I am a white male who loves his Italian, Spanish, Mexican, Argentinian, Columbian women, you know "Latin women" and I am not interested in white women. Yet I always, always attract white women and seldom attract a gorgeousItalian or Argentine woman. I have been with two Latin women before, an Italian girl and a Portuguese girl and they were fantastic lovers, friends and vastly superior to any white woman. So, what gives? I mean I don't even look at White women and yet one or two will smile at me, give me the eyes (invite me over) and of course I go over just to be polite after five minutes when I get so bored of their tedious BS and walk off. I want to know how to stop attracting white women, whom I have zero interest in and how I can go about catching the eye of a gorgeous Latin woman?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thewarrior

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Become black like Robert Downey Jr. in Tropic Thunder. Most white girls still won't date black guys.
 
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Energizer

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Never seen Tropic Thunder and why would I care if White women don't want to Black Guys? I am not Black and I am not interested in White women.
 
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mtlwlu

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Take salsa dance classes, or go to latino clubs, go to places where youd most likely see them.
 
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K.Pez

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eat at a family owned latin restaurant. those mom and pop food joints. you'll see a lot of latin people there, rarely any white people. plus the food is really good!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Duffdog

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In my experience, Latin females are super easy. Just speak spanish to them and they are yours. For some reason, white guys who can speak spanish with the correct accent are super rare. Unfortunately for me, I don't really like latin girls-- you can have all mine. As far as un-attracting white girls... I would say to just be upfront and say "sorry, I'm not interested" though, sometimes that makes them like you more.
 
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I speak a little Spanish, I have considered taking lessons, only because I like the sound of the language, it's not as plain as English. As for rejecting white girls, I am therefore rejecting a majority of women in my country, as there is a lack of Latin women where I live (UK). I have been out with white girls before, and usually resign to them, but if I had a wider choice, Latin women would win hands down.
 
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K.Pez said:
eat at a family owned latin restaurant. those mom and pop food joints. you'll see a lot of latin people there, rarely any white people. plus the food is really good!
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Do young Latin women hang around these places from 18-23, (I'm 19), so I don't want any 40+ mom! ;)
 
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Energizer said:
Do young Latin women hang around these places from 18-23, (I'm 19), so I don't want any 40+ mom! ;)
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a wide range of ages go there... last time i went to one was a few weeks ago in houston and there were a few groups of people around the 18-23 years old age group who were there. there were also some families lol... i think it'll be hit or miss, but it might be worth a try. you can always hit on the people working there too.
 
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chinwaggler

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Because you show no interest in them they are interested. It's just the same as when you're not interested in an ugg.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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get a tan
start dressing more ghetto
start listening to reggaeton
start BEING the part of the spanish chick seducer

just DONT be that creepy white kid who thinks he has a chance with these girls by acting white
 
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r0cky

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The Logical Player said:
get a tan
start dressing more ghetto
start listening to reggaeton
start BEING the part of the spanish chick seducer

just DONT be that creepy white kid who thinks he has a chance with these girls by acting white
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I agree with this. A lot of latinas dont like white men because they've grown up stereotyping white people as "boring" because they like tennis, cant dance, and live in the suburbs. Which is in contrast with the typical latino's way of life. If you want to attract latinas you must study the average latino and incorporate their good qualities into your style.
 
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get you some white hoes on your team anyway. Get in where you fit in, if you have no girls right now get you a starter girl until you can work up to what you want. Better some practice poon than none at all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Energizer

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For the record, I have no intention of ever settling down, I just want to f*ck Latin women, not court them, romance them, date them, marry them, and god forbid have children. So, I dont see why I'd have to change who I was and Ghetto out, I mean its the UK I live not the US, we roll differently in this yard, dawg or whatever it is you Americans jabber on about.

As for Warrior, I dont reject white girls, but they aren't all what they, (black men) and various other non-white men make them out to be. I'd rather have a mixed race girl or a Latin woman, if I am honest. Latin women, more so!
 
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MisterMcGee

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r0cky said:
The Italian language comes from the latin language. Therefore people from Italy are latin.
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I'm baffled you don't see how illogical your logic is. I'll let it settle in.
 
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