"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Frustrating Situation.

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Energizer

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So I am a white male who loves his Italian, Spanish, Mexican, Argentinian, Columbian women, you know "Latin women" and I am not interested in white women. Yet I always, always attract white women and seldom attract a gorgeousItalian or Argentine woman. I have been with two Latin women before, an Italian girl and a Portuguese girl and they were fantastic lovers, friends and vastly superior to any white woman. So, what gives? I mean I don't even look at White women and yet one or two will smile at me, give me the eyes (invite me over) and of course I go over just to be polite after five minutes when I get so bored of their tedious BS and walk off. I want to know how to stop attracting white women, whom I have zero interest in and how I can go about catching the eye of a gorgeous Latin woman?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thewarrior

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Become black like Robert Downey Jr. in Tropic Thunder. Most white girls still won't date black guys.
 
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Energizer

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Never seen Tropic Thunder and why would I care if White women don't want to Black Guys? I am not Black and I am not interested in White women.
 
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mtlwlu

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Take salsa dance classes, or go to latino clubs, go to places where youd most likely see them.
 
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eat at a family owned latin restaurant. those mom and pop food joints. you'll see a lot of latin people there, rarely any white people. plus the food is really good!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In my experience, Latin females are super easy. Just speak spanish to them and they are yours. For some reason, white guys who can speak spanish with the correct accent are super rare. Unfortunately for me, I don't really like latin girls-- you can have all mine. As far as un-attracting white girls... I would say to just be upfront and say "sorry, I'm not interested" though, sometimes that makes them like you more.
 
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I speak a little Spanish, I have considered taking lessons, only because I like the sound of the language, it's not as plain as English. As for rejecting white girls, I am therefore rejecting a majority of women in my country, as there is a lack of Latin women where I live (UK). I have been out with white girls before, and usually resign to them, but if I had a wider choice, Latin women would win hands down.
 
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K.Pez said:
eat at a family owned latin restaurant. those mom and pop food joints. you'll see a lot of latin people there, rarely any white people. plus the food is really good!
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Do young Latin women hang around these places from 18-23, (I'm 19), so I don't want any 40+ mom! ;)
 
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Energizer said:
Do young Latin women hang around these places from 18-23, (I'm 19), so I don't want any 40+ mom! ;)
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a wide range of ages go there... last time i went to one was a few weeks ago in houston and there were a few groups of people around the 18-23 years old age group who were there. there were also some families lol... i think it'll be hit or miss, but it might be worth a try. you can always hit on the people working there too.
 
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Because you show no interest in them they are interested. It's just the same as when you're not interested in an ugg.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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get a tan
start dressing more ghetto
start listening to reggaeton
start BEING the part of the spanish chick seducer

just DONT be that creepy white kid who thinks he has a chance with these girls by acting white
 
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The Logical Player said:
get a tan
start dressing more ghetto
start listening to reggaeton
start BEING the part of the spanish chick seducer

just DONT be that creepy white kid who thinks he has a chance with these girls by acting white
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I agree with this. A lot of latinas dont like white men because they've grown up stereotyping white people as "boring" because they like tennis, cant dance, and live in the suburbs. Which is in contrast with the typical latino's way of life. If you want to attract latinas you must study the average latino and incorporate their good qualities into your style.
 
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get you some white hoes on your team anyway. Get in where you fit in, if you have no girls right now get you a starter girl until you can work up to what you want. Better some practice poon than none at all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Energizer

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For the record, I have no intention of ever settling down, I just want to f*ck Latin women, not court them, romance them, date them, marry them, and god forbid have children. So, I dont see why I'd have to change who I was and Ghetto out, I mean its the UK I live not the US, we roll differently in this yard, dawg or whatever it is you Americans jabber on about.

As for Warrior, I dont reject white girls, but they aren't all what they, (black men) and various other non-white men make them out to be. I'd rather have a mixed race girl or a Latin woman, if I am honest. Latin women, more so!
 
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r0cky said:
The Italian language comes from the latin language. Therefore people from Italy are latin.
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I'm baffled you don't see how illogical your logic is. I'll let it settle in.
 
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