“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How did you guys always stay aware of your behavior when you were DJ's? I'm trying to become more assertive/confident, but I always find myself saying unconfident or dumb things just by habit and only catching myself afterwards... also for body language I'm also finding it relaly hard to control because sometimes when I see a girl I just start doing stuff like scratching my head and I don't even realize I'm doing it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Do stuff that requires confidence to succeed - sports, public speaking, etc...

Get yourself out of your comfort zone more often.
 
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You can't fake "confidence." You can be more assertive, but stop trying to consciously appear confident because you place an unnecessary amount of pressure on yourself. Try to be more comfortable with who you are and things will flow more naturally.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Be interested, but not so interested that you're desperate. You do have other priorities in life that woman isnt the top of your list.
But you make time for them because your schedule is open.

It's all about security and knowing the outcome. insecurity of an uncertain outcome will almost always screw up your confidence.

That's what i've come to realize as of late.
 
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Take a few shots of Jack Daniels, and you'll be ready to get in to a gun fight. Talking to a girl should be no problem after that.

Thankyou Newton, where ever you are, you were a true genius.:rockon:
 
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