"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheMaestro87

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I'm getting really frustrated with talking to girls. It's a problem I've always had. I can approach and talk to almost anyone but every girl I talk to thinks I'm interested in her and I can't figure out why. I naturally neg girls without thinking about it, so I usually build good rapport fast. Only problem is that things become awkward if they aren't interested (possibly because I'm not trying to game them).

Any thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Whatever you doing "naturally" does not work for you.


Are you fat? Skinny? Ugly?
 

Stuntmann

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Could it be that you're so hot and now you negging these girl, so that builds resistance because they give your disapproval a high rating. Telling you you're into them, because that's a good thing coming from a hot guy.



Perhaps you're not flirting with the ladies, and/or there is no sensual eye contact.
 
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