"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheMaestro87

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I'm getting really frustrated with talking to girls. It's a problem I've always had. I can approach and talk to almost anyone but every girl I talk to thinks I'm interested in her and I can't figure out why. I naturally neg girls without thinking about it, so I usually build good rapport fast. Only problem is that things become awkward if they aren't interested (possibly because I'm not trying to game them).

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whatever you doing "naturally" does not work for you.


Are you fat? Skinny? Ugly?
 

Stuntmann

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Could it be that you're so hot and now you negging these girl, so that builds resistance because they give your disapproval a high rating. Telling you you're into them, because that's a good thing coming from a hot guy.



Perhaps you're not flirting with the ladies, and/or there is no sensual eye contact.
 
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