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Front desk girl at gym wants a nickname...

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So I'm pretty frequent to one particular gym and sometimes just say hi to the usual front end staff.

Sometimes throw in a nickname just to brighten their day.

Today I walked in and saw the two guys I usually see and said "Hey stud 1 and stud 2"

And then a girl at the desk goes "And stud 3" -- and I said "I dunno, feels weird to call a lady a stud... maybe studette?"

Went about my work out, was walking out and jokingly said "See ya studette" and then I said "I dunno about that word, doesn't sound as smooth"

And she goes "You should think of one"

So my questions are;

1. Was she flirting low key with me?
2. What should I give her as a nickname?

The fact she wanted to throw herself into the conversation, whom I've never met her is pretty cool because she senses the energy I'm giving off.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maybe she was flirting, maybe not. Ask her out and you will have your answer-

Im not very creative with nicknames. I would probably just call her front desk girl.
 

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I never go after hired guns, they are literally paid to be nice and some of them flirt as part of that.
 

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Is she a tall chick? Amazon
Is she muscular? Shield Maiden
Small and gymnast like ? maybe dark complected? "Rue" from Hunger Games


Or pick out a famous athlete or character/actress she resembles

Nicknames give people the feeling of belonging. Especially if it is complementary...

As for whether to ask her out...I'd flirt and let her put herself in a position to be asked out. Any other girls inthe gym who are attracted to you might ask her about you so she could be a good wing girl.
 

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Sales staff shenanigans.
Actions over words. Quit over analysing trivialities
I was going to say this. It's usually a saleswoman job to make you seem like a love interest. And you guys fall for it everytime.
 

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So I'm pretty frequent to one particular gym and sometimes just say hi to the usual front end staff.

Sometimes throw in a nickname just to brighten their day.

Today I walked in and saw the two guys I usually see and said "Hey stud 1 and stud 2"

And then a girl at the desk goes "And stud 3" -- and I said "I dunno, feels weird to call a lady a stud... maybe studette?"

Went about my work out, was walking out and jokingly said "See ya studette" and then I said "I dunno about that word, doesn't sound as smooth"

And she goes "You should think of one"

So my questions are;

1. Was she flirting low key with me?
2. What should I give her as a nickname?

The fact she wanted to throw herself into the conversation, whom I've never met her is pretty cool because she senses the energy I'm giving off.
front desk bimbo... :cool:
 
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