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Front desk girl at gym wants a nickname...

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So I'm pretty frequent to one particular gym and sometimes just say hi to the usual front end staff.

Sometimes throw in a nickname just to brighten their day.

Today I walked in and saw the two guys I usually see and said "Hey stud 1 and stud 2"

And then a girl at the desk goes "And stud 3" -- and I said "I dunno, feels weird to call a lady a stud... maybe studette?"

Went about my work out, was walking out and jokingly said "See ya studette" and then I said "I dunno about that word, doesn't sound as smooth"

And she goes "You should think of one"

So my questions are;

1. Was she flirting low key with me?
2. What should I give her as a nickname?

The fact she wanted to throw herself into the conversation, whom I've never met her is pretty cool because she senses the energy I'm giving off.
 

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Maybe she was flirting, maybe not. Ask her out and you will have your answer-

Im not very creative with nicknames. I would probably just call her front desk girl.
 

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I never go after hired guns, they are literally paid to be nice and some of them flirt as part of that.
 

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Is she a tall chick? Amazon
Is she muscular? Shield Maiden
Small and gymnast like ? maybe dark complected? "Rue" from Hunger Games


Or pick out a famous athlete or character/actress she resembles

Nicknames give people the feeling of belonging. Especially if it is complementary...

As for whether to ask her out...I'd flirt and let her put herself in a position to be asked out. Any other girls inthe gym who are attracted to you might ask her about you so she could be a good wing girl.
 

HaleyBaron

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Sales staff shenanigans.
Actions over words. Quit over analysing trivialities
I was going to say this. It's usually a saleswoman job to make you seem like a love interest. And you guys fall for it everytime.
 

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So I'm pretty frequent to one particular gym and sometimes just say hi to the usual front end staff.

Sometimes throw in a nickname just to brighten their day.

Today I walked in and saw the two guys I usually see and said "Hey stud 1 and stud 2"

And then a girl at the desk goes "And stud 3" -- and I said "I dunno, feels weird to call a lady a stud... maybe studette?"

Went about my work out, was walking out and jokingly said "See ya studette" and then I said "I dunno about that word, doesn't sound as smooth"

And she goes "You should think of one"

So my questions are;

1. Was she flirting low key with me?
2. What should I give her as a nickname?

The fact she wanted to throw herself into the conversation, whom I've never met her is pretty cool because she senses the energy I'm giving off.
front desk bimbo... :cool:
 
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