Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

From the beginning to the very end.

October

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
209
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Hawaii
Bump!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

B-Lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 9, 2005
Messages
1,007
Reaction score
10
Location
On The Road to Self-Improvement
Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
Girls like good looking guys, now go look good.
Isn't it somewhere in "the book" that looks aren't all that important? Or does that not apply to high school girls?

And what the hell that bump mean?
 

JSH

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2003
Messages
1,088
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
London
Re: Re: From the beginning to the very end.

Originally posted by bluelemond
Isn't it somewhere in "the book" that looks aren't all that important? Or does that not apply to high school girls?

And what the hell that bump mean?
bump means that it is purely a post in order to raise it to the top of the forum, so that more people will read it and think about it, ie the poster considers it to be a good post.

There is no "book", looks are not that important in the grand scheme of "seduction", but they help you get over other obstacles, such as shyness. If you improve your looks you will be more confident, since you will know that you are better looking. Its part of the overall package and an important factor in making a good first impression on most good looking (and extrememly shallow) girls.

Plus my complexion is still awful, and nothing works, and I am still overweight, yet I am considered to be good looking since that is the PERCEPTION of me. Improving your looks is one part of improving who you are.
 

October

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
209
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Hawaii
Bump.
 
Top