"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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From the beginning to the very end.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
Girls like good looking guys, now go look good.
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Isn't it somewhere in "the book" that looks aren't all that important? Or does that not apply to high school girls?

And what the hell that bump mean?
 
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Re: Re: From the beginning to the very end.

Originally posted by bluelemond
Isn't it somewhere in "the book" that looks aren't all that important? Or does that not apply to high school girls?

And what the hell that bump mean?
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bump means that it is purely a post in order to raise it to the top of the forum, so that more people will read it and think about it, ie the poster considers it to be a good post.

There is no "book", looks are not that important in the grand scheme of "seduction", but they help you get over other obstacles, such as shyness. If you improve your looks you will be more confident, since you will know that you are better looking. Its part of the overall package and an important factor in making a good first impression on most good looking (and extrememly shallow) girls.

Plus my complexion is still awful, and nothing works, and I am still overweight, yet I am considered to be good looking since that is the PERCEPTION of me. Improving your looks is one part of improving who you are.
 
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