"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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From russia with love?

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Hello guys, my inquisitive post about something I'd like to share with you


I am 17 and currently in 6th form doing my A levels


Not much background needs to be covered really only that recently I got an email from a russian girl who is interested in me.

We've never met before so it's through the internet she read my profile on some site or something.


She lives in leeds and is thinking about hooking up for a ONS

I believe to have come across something decent here until I realised she was 26

^^; Umm I've thought about pretending to be 19/20 for the day just to get a decent lay and be done with but what do you guys think?


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think if a russian "girl" emails you from nothing dont answer...
 
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Oh no she's genuine, sent me two pictures.

I know you think "well that could be anybody" but I do seem to remember emailing someone ages ago about hooking up but for the gods honest truth I cannot remember what it was.

Anyways thanks for the post
 
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lol in-motion:D

ok she sent u 2 pics anybody can do that... but lets imagine if we knew 100% it was a girl.. why would she email u?. and youre 17 years old you shouldnt (and you dont need to) hook up with people online. espiieccly russian womens that send u email out of the blue and say she want to hook up with you..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I did only do it whilst drunk thus why I can't remember.

But yeah I see where you're coming from, however if she was a 100% girl, then a ONS wouldnt be too bad would it? despite the nature of the hookup being from the net
 
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dont know what ONS is.. but if shes 100% girl and hot to, you DONT meet a russian girl who send you a email saying she wanna hook up
 
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One night stand.

Obviously I'm not going to do it without 100% confirmation, I'm not an idiot but I was the one who emailed her(by accident but still) so she only replied, possibly from a hookup website. Although I would have had to create an account for those so I'm guessing whilst drunk I would have taken an easier option and used that something list site or something similar but I cannot honestly remember atm
 
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well u asked what we think i guess most of the people here think this is ridicoulus.. why do you think she throws herself at u? because she can see you through the screen and think youre a hot boy she want a one night stand with?:S
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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