"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From russia with love?

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Hello guys, my inquisitive post about something I'd like to share with you


I am 17 and currently in 6th form doing my A levels


Not much background needs to be covered really only that recently I got an email from a russian girl who is interested in me.

We've never met before so it's through the internet she read my profile on some site or something.


She lives in leeds and is thinking about hooking up for a ONS

I believe to have come across something decent here until I realised she was 26

^^; Umm I've thought about pretending to be 19/20 for the day just to get a decent lay and be done with but what do you guys think?


:cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think if a russian "girl" emails you from nothing dont answer...
 

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Oh no she's genuine, sent me two pictures.

I know you think "well that could be anybody" but I do seem to remember emailing someone ages ago about hooking up but for the gods honest truth I cannot remember what it was.

Anyways thanks for the post
 

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lol in-motion:D

ok she sent u 2 pics anybody can do that... but lets imagine if we knew 100% it was a girl.. why would she email u?. and youre 17 years old you shouldnt (and you dont need to) hook up with people online. espiieccly russian womens that send u email out of the blue and say she want to hook up with you..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I did only do it whilst drunk thus why I can't remember.

But yeah I see where you're coming from, however if she was a 100% girl, then a ONS wouldnt be too bad would it? despite the nature of the hookup being from the net
 

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dont know what ONS is.. but if shes 100% girl and hot to, you DONT meet a russian girl who send you a email saying she wanna hook up
 

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One night stand.

Obviously I'm not going to do it without 100% confirmation, I'm not an idiot but I was the one who emailed her(by accident but still) so she only replied, possibly from a hookup website. Although I would have had to create an account for those so I'm guessing whilst drunk I would have taken an easier option and used that something list site or something similar but I cannot honestly remember atm
 

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well u asked what we think i guess most of the people here think this is ridicoulus.. why do you think she throws herself at u? because she can see you through the screen and think youre a hot boy she want a one night stand with?:S
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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