"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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From riches to rags...have you been

_sideways_

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So... I still work my butt off...
I cut back my hours but I'm in the gym more hours...I'm not spending money on dinners or drinks... Like some do, with cash, because they roll better than the rest.

But chicks be coming up to me just to talk weather...wtf...lol...I barely shave now...

I used to roll around in style...and nothing.mm

Is it my shoulders showing now...or my silly smile


Have you guys gone from pimping to broke...and got more results afterwards?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NickAdams713

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_Sideways_,

I've see more dudes who make good money lose their girls or have their girls cheat on them with guys who subsist on making 200 bucks a week spinning records as a dj and living in apartments above their mother's garage than you would believe. Why? Game.

There are three aspects to picking up chicks--money, looks, game. If you wanna be successful, you need two out of the three. But if you could only have 1...well, pick game every damn time!
 

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_Sideways_,

I've see more dudes who make good money lose their girls or have their girls cheat on them with guys who subsist on making 200 bucks a week. They require student loans or welfare programs to subsist.

There are three aspects to picking up chicks--money, looks, game. If you wanna be successful, you need two out of the three. But if you could only have 1...well, pick game every damn time!
You've seen boys in college subsist on $200 a week. Not real men.

Game is most important?? Absurd. Game is about pretending to act like someone with money and looks. Game is least important.

Get a job.
 

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^ That escalated quickly...

Anyway, I've yet to see an impact on how much money I make affecting how many girls I attract. I've been broke and smashing everything in sight and gone on droughts while I was making good money. Vice-versa too. I'm more inclined to think geography matters more than your cash.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NickAdams713

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You've seen boys in college subsist on $200 a week. Not real men.

Game is most important?? Absurd. Game is about pretending to act like someone with money and looks. Game is least important.

Get a job.
I will assuredly get that haircut and real job. I'll try not to step on your lawn as well. Just try to not get too upset when ya girl glances at me when I walk in.
 
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