"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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From riches to rags...have you been

_sideways_

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So... I still work my butt off...
I cut back my hours but I'm in the gym more hours...I'm not spending money on dinners or drinks... Like some do, with cash, because they roll better than the rest.

But chicks be coming up to me just to talk weather...wtf...lol...I barely shave now...

I used to roll around in style...and nothing.mm

Is it my shoulders showing now...or my silly smile


Have you guys gone from pimping to broke...and got more results afterwards?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NickAdams713

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_Sideways_,

I've see more dudes who make good money lose their girls or have their girls cheat on them with guys who subsist on making 200 bucks a week spinning records as a dj and living in apartments above their mother's garage than you would believe. Why? Game.

There are three aspects to picking up chicks--money, looks, game. If you wanna be successful, you need two out of the three. But if you could only have 1...well, pick game every damn time!
 

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_Sideways_,

I've see more dudes who make good money lose their girls or have their girls cheat on them with guys who subsist on making 200 bucks a week. They require student loans or welfare programs to subsist.

There are three aspects to picking up chicks--money, looks, game. If you wanna be successful, you need two out of the three. But if you could only have 1...well, pick game every damn time!
You've seen boys in college subsist on $200 a week. Not real men.

Game is most important?? Absurd. Game is about pretending to act like someone with money and looks. Game is least important.

Get a job.
 

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^ That escalated quickly...

Anyway, I've yet to see an impact on how much money I make affecting how many girls I attract. I've been broke and smashing everything in sight and gone on droughts while I was making good money. Vice-versa too. I'm more inclined to think geography matters more than your cash.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NickAdams713

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You've seen boys in college subsist on $200 a week. Not real men.

Game is most important?? Absurd. Game is about pretending to act like someone with money and looks. Game is least important.

Get a job.
I will assuredly get that haircut and real job. I'll try not to step on your lawn as well. Just try to not get too upset when ya girl glances at me when I walk in.
 
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