"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dark Chivalry

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Actually, Bigjohnson never admitted being a sex tourist, that was english and sparky. The latter is now banned, great decision of the moderation team.

BJ is just some dude who thinks sex tourists are no different from sailors or businessmen who travel for work, some of whom may make use of prostitutes, but who did not go for that purpose. He has some weird posts, like thinking it's normal for old men to date teens, but he also has a good deal of normal posts. I'm pretty sure he is not a young guy though, he's at least late 30's.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pretty good post there DC, actually I think "Sex Tourist" is a term invented by popular media and that almost zero percent of the people who go anywhere are so singleminded as the term implies. Therefore I reject it as a useful term in a reasonable conversation about people in general, although to apply it to a specific person well known to one is I suppose potentially reasonable. If so, then calling my Dad a warm-place-tourist should also be a Good Thing (tm) since he and mom like to go to Palm Springs or Baja ....


Yeah, it's a stupid concept all around isn't it?
 

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ricorico said:
BJ,
As for the sailors,

Hello sailors, is that what its about? come see my franchise up in Beverly Hills, you can enter it by my back door!
 

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englishman said:
Hello sailors, is that what its about? come see my franchise up in Beverly Hills, you can enter it by my back door!

You have a one track mind as your mind obsesses everytime I say certain words pertaining to men.Most guys who go to the parts of the world you do like to experiment with ladyboys which I'm sure you are familiar with.Hence why you cannot get your mind out of the gutter and only focus on men and backdoors. Disgusting!!!.



. As old as you are, your arguments are weak and extremely juvenille. As for myself being enterprising at a young age. YES,I'm proud of that!!!!. I was taught to have goals,unlike some people!
Like my father before me and his father before him I was taught that sky is the limit and you can achieve your goals. I'm happy with myself and my life.

As for bragging,aren't you the one who accused me of being jealous of your fat wallet because your juvenille mind could'nt come up with anything else???? Were'nt you trying to brag? Too bad it was'nt true. So now you're trying to put me down because your weak attempt at implying I was poor and therefore jealous of you did'nt work. Go back to the old folks home old man. Or at least find a forum for men your age who are searching for teens. I never thought old folks could be immature, but you proved me wrong!In case you haven't noticed this is a forum for young men who are looking to better themselves and learn. Not men who are trying to regress!
 
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ZZzzz bye folks Im out of this one, over and out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ricorico

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Proof where Englishman's obsessive mind is! Enough said!!!!!


englishman said:
My 2 bits on the 'sex tourist' label.

3. Here in Canada, women can buy dildos, big fvck off red ones, black ones, rotating ones, fist shaped ones, some made specialy to shove up there azz, they can have parties where they bring all there mates round to play with em, go on T.V. and talk about em, and it's called empowerment!




Go see and then talk about it.
 
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Dark Chivalry

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Now englishman, that man is as close to braindead as it can get. He is also the sort of bonehead who gives parvenus a bad name. He has nothing to offer to a woman, except a tool, so he sees dildoes as competition. The women in his circle are probably too dense to care about anything other than dyck and money. This is the second time he said he was leaving this thread, btw.
 
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