"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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From pessimist in the US to optimist in the Philippines

Dark Chivalry

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Actually, Bigjohnson never admitted being a sex tourist, that was english and sparky. The latter is now banned, great decision of the moderation team.

BJ is just some dude who thinks sex tourists are no different from sailors or businessmen who travel for work, some of whom may make use of prostitutes, but who did not go for that purpose. He has some weird posts, like thinking it's normal for old men to date teens, but he also has a good deal of normal posts. I'm pretty sure he is not a young guy though, he's at least late 30's.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pretty good post there DC, actually I think "Sex Tourist" is a term invented by popular media and that almost zero percent of the people who go anywhere are so singleminded as the term implies. Therefore I reject it as a useful term in a reasonable conversation about people in general, although to apply it to a specific person well known to one is I suppose potentially reasonable. If so, then calling my Dad a warm-place-tourist should also be a Good Thing (tm) since he and mom like to go to Palm Springs or Baja ....


Yeah, it's a stupid concept all around isn't it?
 

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ricorico said:
BJ,
As for the sailors,

Hello sailors, is that what its about? come see my franchise up in Beverly Hills, you can enter it by my back door!
 

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englishman said:
Hello sailors, is that what its about? come see my franchise up in Beverly Hills, you can enter it by my back door!

You have a one track mind as your mind obsesses everytime I say certain words pertaining to men.Most guys who go to the parts of the world you do like to experiment with ladyboys which I'm sure you are familiar with.Hence why you cannot get your mind out of the gutter and only focus on men and backdoors. Disgusting!!!.



. As old as you are, your arguments are weak and extremely juvenille. As for myself being enterprising at a young age. YES,I'm proud of that!!!!. I was taught to have goals,unlike some people!
Like my father before me and his father before him I was taught that sky is the limit and you can achieve your goals. I'm happy with myself and my life.

As for bragging,aren't you the one who accused me of being jealous of your fat wallet because your juvenille mind could'nt come up with anything else???? Were'nt you trying to brag? Too bad it was'nt true. So now you're trying to put me down because your weak attempt at implying I was poor and therefore jealous of you did'nt work. Go back to the old folks home old man. Or at least find a forum for men your age who are searching for teens. I never thought old folks could be immature, but you proved me wrong!In case you haven't noticed this is a forum for young men who are looking to better themselves and learn. Not men who are trying to regress!
 
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ZZzzz bye folks Im out of this one, over and out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Proof where Englishman's obsessive mind is! Enough said!!!!!


englishman said:
My 2 bits on the 'sex tourist' label.

3. Here in Canada, women can buy dildos, big fvck off red ones, black ones, rotating ones, fist shaped ones, some made specialy to shove up there azz, they can have parties where they bring all there mates round to play with em, go on T.V. and talk about em, and it's called empowerment!




Go see and then talk about it.
 
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Now englishman, that man is as close to braindead as it can get. He is also the sort of bonehead who gives parvenus a bad name. He has nothing to offer to a woman, except a tool, so he sees dildoes as competition. The women in his circle are probably too dense to care about anything other than dyck and money. This is the second time he said he was leaving this thread, btw.
 
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