"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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From now on I propose people get negged for not posting pics in their stories (srs)

Should we post pics in their stories?

  • Yes--Great Idea

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • No--I have to protect my e-rep

    Votes: 9 60.0%

  • Total voters
    15

ka_mate

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The poll question is fairly biased

"No I have to protect my e-rep" insinuates that anyone who is against posting is a bit of a keyboard warrior

Why didn't a plain 'No' suffice?

Personally, I don't bother with the rating system. I think if you find her attractive then go for it. It's more of a "yes or no" system for me.

I don't think that posting pictures will help in any sense. I feel that it will just result in aimless discussion that won't help the OP

ie. guys start to discuss what she is rated
guys start to say yes or no to whether they would fvck her
guys start sh1tting on OP "for having no standards bro"

and then you've got the issues of privacy (I wouldn't post any pictures of girls I knew on this)

as well as legitimacy

and then you'll have guys going
"you just got that photo off the internet rah rah rah"

I like it the way it is, without photos
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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