"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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From now on I propose people get negged for not posting pics in their stories (srs)

Should we post pics in their stories?

  • Yes--Great Idea

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • No--I have to protect my e-rep

    Votes: 9 60.0%

  • Total voters
    15

ka_mate

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The poll question is fairly biased

"No I have to protect my e-rep" insinuates that anyone who is against posting is a bit of a keyboard warrior

Why didn't a plain 'No' suffice?

Personally, I don't bother with the rating system. I think if you find her attractive then go for it. It's more of a "yes or no" system for me.

I don't think that posting pictures will help in any sense. I feel that it will just result in aimless discussion that won't help the OP

ie. guys start to discuss what she is rated
guys start to say yes or no to whether they would fvck her
guys start sh1tting on OP "for having no standards bro"

and then you've got the issues of privacy (I wouldn't post any pictures of girls I knew on this)

as well as legitimacy

and then you'll have guys going
"you just got that photo off the internet rah rah rah"

I like it the way it is, without photos
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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