"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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From now on I propose people get negged for not posting pics in their stories (srs)

Should we post pics in their stories?

  • Yes--Great Idea

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • No--I have to protect my e-rep

    Votes: 9 60.0%

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Solomon

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Let's kill the rating scale seriously. I saw post not to long here ago with a guy calling some chick a "12". Saw the pic and the chick wasn't a "12". :crackup:

If your gonna post a story, post a pic like Marvin Gaye does, if you don't wanna post a pic of the chick find a pic of chick who looks comprable. It seems SS is the only forum that is still stuck circa 2002. Other forums if you don't post pics you get negged. I see guys claming their banging strippers yet no pictures are posted WTF

Just saying

My "8" isn't gonna be your "8". We all have differen't taste and prefernces (I like thick ass's and jugs)


For your time

http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/522505_10150991445146998_874773841_n.jpg

http://a3.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/579914_10150937729926998_2048933263_n.jpg

http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/542921_10150771439806998_1444465341_n.jpg

http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/292008_10150419278011998_494062650_n.jpg

p.s. this is some random d-list celebrity
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Solomon said:
Let's kill the rating scale seriously. I saw post not to long here ago with a guy calling some chick a "12". Saw the pic and the chick wasn't a "12". :crackup:

If your gonna post a story, post a pic like Marvin Gaye does, if you don't wanna post a pic of the chick find a pic of chick who looks comprable. It seems SS is the only forum that is still stuck circa 2002. Other forums if you don't post pics you get negged. I see guys claming their banging strippers yet no pictures are posted WTF

Just saying

My "8" isn't gonna be your "8". We all have differen't taste and prefernces (I like thick ass's and jugs)


For your time

http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/522505_10150991445146998_874773841_n.jpg

http://a3.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/579914_10150937729926998_2048933263_n.jpg

http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/542921_10150771439806998_1444465341_n.jpg

http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/292008_10150419278011998_494062650_n.jpg

DAMN SOLOMAN, THOSE ARE DEFINATELY 8.5+ legimate.

Such a woman would never talk to me.

I can't even get a 6 out of 10.

What is your secret?
 

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It sounds good in theory, as there is no doubt a lot of guys on here embellish their stories, both 1.) the level of hotness the girls are and 2.) the amount of girls they're getting. The way I see it, if their dating life was as good as they were making it out to be, they frankly would not be here posting about it

Problem with posting pics are, you can easily scan facebook or online dating sites for pictures and claim them as the girls you're banging.

the only way it would work is if the poster posted a pic of himself and then one with him and the woman in question. but that's a little too personal and frankly, i probably wouldn't care.
 

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That girl is definitely hot. In the 8 to 9 range. Totally fake boobs though. I prefer real but small boobs. She looks like a stripper who I would not want a dance from. But everyone has their own type.

There is no universal 10. When someone says HB9 they mean that they think that girl is a 9. Hardly anyone else will agree. Maybe that person had a homely mom who looked just like her.

Then again some people exaggerate the other way. For example, a girl who everyone thinks is a "6.5 at best" won't make a living as a stripper, will she?

Also, some people are not photogenic. The stripper I dated is not photogenic because she's on the fine line of being overweight and the camera adds 10. In person she looks perfect. I'm not a photogenic person either so I can never pick up hot women online, but in person I have all my life. Part of it is confidence, height, sense of humor, eye contact, accent, character and aura, things a photo can't project.

Finally, this is an anonymous forum. New technology is coming out that can do facial recognition. We don't want to archive all that stuff, especially if the girl works in a public place.
 

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MisterD said:
It sounds good in theory, as there is no doubt a lot of guys on here embellish their stories, both 1.) the level of hotness the girls are and 2.) the amount of girls they're getting. The way I see it, if their dating life was as good as they were making it out to be, they frankly would not be here posting about it

Problem with posting pics are, you can easily scan facebook or online dating sites for pictures and claim them as the girls you're banging.

the only way it would work is if the poster posted a pic of himself and then one with him and the woman in question. but that's a little too personal and frankly, i probably wouldn't care.
Noted'

However they have been doing this on bodybuilding.com for years and guys are pretty honest about it even if the chicks is ugly.

I've been reading threads here about guys talking about hb8.5 this and hb7 that. It's not about if the chick is hot or no but the truth is lot of guys put the girl on a pedestal. This is why the rating system sucks!!!

Not only that but a lot of guys on this site look like this

http://kidstrangelove.files.wordpress.com/2010/08/mystery-and-style-pua-peacocking.jpg


now you got guys claming their banging strippers but not a single picture is seen
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A solid 8 in my world.

-2 points for the boobage.
 

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"Man I just got done fvcking this UG2, man I'm so ashamed of her. She would've been a 3 but that nasty mole on her head >_<"

http://www.1zoom.net/big2/620/267830-frederika.jpg

Honestly, which guy would admit he games ugly chicks? Does it even matter anyway? Like we're not going to give out advice if she is under HB7.

EDIT: I vote for not posting pics. It's great if you do, but it really doesn't make a difference since it would just be training guys to gauge how good a woman is purely on looks. (she might be a supermodel, but she is a dead fish in the sack) Besides, I would not feel comfortable posting other peoples pics on websites without them knowing, male or female. (Given they're not famous)
 

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Fly By Night said:
"Man I just got done fvcking this UG2, man I'm so ashamed of her. She would've been a 3 but that nasty mole on her head >_<"

http://www.1zoom.net/big2/620/267830-frederika.jpg

Honestly, which guy would admit he games ugly chicks? Does it even matter anyway? Like we're not going to give out advice if she is under HB7.
If she's under a "7" you shouldn't be asking for advice LOL unless your a noob. No reason to expose your-self if you if your banging grenades

:whistle:

pdx1138 said:
A solid 8 in my world.

-2 points for the boobage.
9.5/10 IMO I don't belivei n 10's unless the heaven parts and she flew down from the sky 9.5 is the highest I go
 

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Amante Silvestre said:
Honestly? I won't usually bother if I know the girl is hard to look at. You really shouldn't need much help for something like that.

Good to see you around Amante

Some examples

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=145947753&page=1

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=144321651&page=1

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=145107811&page=1
^^Virgin asking for advice with cute girl

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=146034603
^^pics of text convo

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=145865283&page=1
^^more pics

Just saying

SgtSplacker said:
If that is really her "WOW" she has that "look" that I like....I bet she is shagging minx in bed
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You can just imagine what it takes for a man to walk away from that....
 

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I'm by no means a pro at gaming women. I mean I might give out advice for other guys, but I make sure I know what I'm talking about beforehand. In the world I live in, even the 5's act like they deserve a Brad Pitt, and us as well act like we deserve a Pamela Anderson... But don't get me wrong, it is good to have goals. I'm just saying, are all the values of a woman vested in her looks? That's something I'd expect television/Hollywood to teach me.

I guess you could take this as a beginner's point of view.

And I thought someone told me, when I first started posting, to start with average women and not jump straight to the 9's?
 

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Solomon said:
Let's kill the rating scale seriously. I saw post not to long here ago with a guy calling some chick a "12". Saw the pic and the chick wasn't a "12". :crackup:

If your gonna post a story, post a pic like Marvin Gaye does, if you don't wanna post a pic of the chick find a pic of chick who looks comprable. It seems SS is the only forum that is still stuck circa 2002. Other forums if you don't post pics you get negged. I see guys claming their banging strippers yet no pictures are posted WTF

Just saying

My "8" isn't gonna be your "8". We all have differen't taste and prefernces (I like thick ass's and jugs)


For your time

http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/522505_10150991445146998_874773841_n.jpg

http://a3.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/579914_10150937729926998_2048933263_n.jpg

http://a4.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/542921_10150771439806998_1444465341_n.jpg

http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/292008_10150419278011998_494062650_n.jpg

p.s. this is some random d-list celebrity

Good post Solomon. I work at my part time second job in a high end dept store in NY with many chicks that look like her minus the fake boobs and face job. (chicks face looks too overdone for me.) I can literally name about thirty chicks 20-28 range that work or have worked at my part time in cosmetics, ladies apparel, jewelry, etc. that are legit hot as sh1t. Once you get used to working with and seeing so many hot customers, talking with them etc. you get used to it. They're people too. (And no I'm not posting pictures of chicks I know personally on here.)
 

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My only issue with it is replies turning into commenting on the pics instead of answering the questions/issues.

I know bb.com is (hilariously) ridiculous, but it happens all the time there.

We just had threads started about how there needs to be a Noob section because the posts are so bad. I think that's largely contributed to poor replies, when noobs aren't being taught properly. I can't imagine how much less help noobs will be getting when the responses to their questions are just "what's with the mustache on this girl?"

I'm always curious to see what the girls look like, but I think it will take away from the point of the posts. Some people will just click out of the post if they think the girl is nasty, without helping the OP. Others will comment only to say how they wanna bang her. I think sometimes being blind to the looks of the girl in question makes for a more realistic response.

EDIT: Plus, you can never trust people to actually post 1) the right girl, and 2) pics that accurately portray her.
 

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What about the girl, won't she be, I think the correct term is, pissed off?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bigneil said:
That girl is definitely hot. In the 8 to 9 range. Totally fake boobs though. I prefer real but small boobs. She looks like a stripper who I would not want a dance from. But everyone has their own type.

There is no universal 10. When someone says HB9 they mean that they think that girl is a 9. Hardly anyone else will agree. Maybe that person had a homely mom who looked just like her.

Then again some people exaggerate the other way. For example, a girl who everyone thinks is a "6.5 at best" won't make a living as a stripper, will she?

Also, some people are not photogenic. The stripper I dated is not photogenic because she's on the fine line of being overweight and the camera adds 10. In person she looks perfect. I'm not a photogenic person either so I can never pick up hot women online, but in person I have all my life. Part of it is confidence, height, sense of humor, eye contact, accent, character and aura, things a photo can't project.

Finally, this is an anonymous forum. New technology is coming out that can do facial recognition. We don't want to archive all that stuff, especially if the girl works in a public place.
You are obsessed with strippers. Very strange.
 

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I will NEVER, EVER post pictures of myself or any girl I get with on this site. However, I will look at YOU and YOUR girl, if you so choose to partake.
 

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When you say stories, do you mean like field reports?

Taking pics is ok for young guys.

With all due respect, for an older guy, asking to take her pic before or after you b@ng your ONS is creepy and can ruin the sarge.

The exception would be if you were dating her for bit. If she thinks she's your gf, she probably won't mind.
 

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it's about privacy? is the answer you give someone gonna be dependent on what the girl looks like?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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