"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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From now on I propose people get negged for not posting pics in their stories (srs)

Should we post pics in their stories?

  • Yes--Great Idea

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • No--I have to protect my e-rep

    Votes: 9 60.0%

  • Total voters
    15

ka_mate

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The poll question is fairly biased

"No I have to protect my e-rep" insinuates that anyone who is against posting is a bit of a keyboard warrior

Why didn't a plain 'No' suffice?

Personally, I don't bother with the rating system. I think if you find her attractive then go for it. It's more of a "yes or no" system for me.

I don't think that posting pictures will help in any sense. I feel that it will just result in aimless discussion that won't help the OP

ie. guys start to discuss what she is rated
guys start to say yes or no to whether they would fvck her
guys start sh1tting on OP "for having no standards bro"

and then you've got the issues of privacy (I wouldn't post any pictures of girls I knew on this)

as well as legitimacy

and then you'll have guys going
"you just got that photo off the internet rah rah rah"

I like it the way it is, without photos
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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