"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
From mega shy to over confident
- Thread starter S0LID
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I am not criticising you. Really, I am just pointing out a fact I have observed from the outside. Sometimes you need constructive criticism to grow. I was given my fair share by some of the better posters here when I first got here. I really learnt a lot about myself in that time.Originally posted by S0LID
ok mate cheers
Then again i'm willing to listen to all critisism. Doesnt mean I'm gonna take it all in. Like Rich tells me i treat girls wrong with my "NEXT!" attitude and stuff, he thinks they are angels.