deathbymethane
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**Was written yesterday (sunday 8th oct)**
I'm a very skinny guy (bmi dropped off the meter) and have always felt insecure looking at myself in the mirror, when close to women and around any guys who appeared to have a better shape than me.
Today, I got out of the shower and held my shoulders in a slightly different way - the difference was incredible. I had that V-shape that you get when you work out. Thats when I realised that most of my insecurity would go out of the window if I just sorted out my posture.
So thats goal number one...
Related to that one is working out regularly (3 times a week - Monday, Wednesday & Friday) - if I fix my posture and build some strength/muscle, I reckon my physical self-confidence will skyrocket.
I've been fortunate enough to have had one very beautiful girlfriend, but I think most of that was due to me being in the right place at the right time. I need to get a lot more comfortable around women.
So goal 3 is to introduce myself to at least 5 women I don't know every week at social events (parties/dancing classes/etc)
If an attractive girl gives me her number, I'll follow it up - thats goal 4. This one starts right now - this girl from my class gave me her number a while ago and I haven't used it yet. Here goes nothing. I'll let you know how it goes.
Finally, I need to spend less time watching porn and more time studying and hitting those personal goals. So thats number 5.
I'll keep you posted.
Yours in blissful anonymity,
deathbymethane
I'm a very skinny guy (bmi dropped off the meter) and have always felt insecure looking at myself in the mirror, when close to women and around any guys who appeared to have a better shape than me.
Today, I got out of the shower and held my shoulders in a slightly different way - the difference was incredible. I had that V-shape that you get when you work out. Thats when I realised that most of my insecurity would go out of the window if I just sorted out my posture.
So thats goal number one...
Related to that one is working out regularly (3 times a week - Monday, Wednesday & Friday) - if I fix my posture and build some strength/muscle, I reckon my physical self-confidence will skyrocket.
I've been fortunate enough to have had one very beautiful girlfriend, but I think most of that was due to me being in the right place at the right time. I need to get a lot more comfortable around women.
So goal 3 is to introduce myself to at least 5 women I don't know every week at social events (parties/dancing classes/etc)
If an attractive girl gives me her number, I'll follow it up - thats goal 4. This one starts right now - this girl from my class gave me her number a while ago and I haven't used it yet. Here goes nothing. I'll let you know how it goes.
Finally, I need to spend less time watching porn and more time studying and hitting those personal goals. So thats number 5.
I'll keep you posted.
Yours in blissful anonymity,
deathbymethane
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