"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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from fitness everything flows

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never underestimate fitness. it could be your missing llink.

work out. go to the gym and see how to get fit and build muscle

healthy body healthy mind.

and because being a dj is all in the mind firstly, you'll need your fitness

i am living proof
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jakethasnake

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I think this should be the BASIC tenent of the DJ philosophy, but sadly a lot of DJs overlook it, thinking they can get by on personality. :(



Think of it this way:



You've been a geek/loser/doormat for ever and EVER. How long do you think it will take for you to develop a DJ personality (that isn't faked and is fully natural now), to the level that it can overcome any physical disadvantages you might have? YEARS. That's right - many many years.



Until then, you will have to suffer countless rejections because on top of being a fat fvck/skinny bytch, you're not interesting, funny, confident enough.




On the same note, we all know that looks/fitness can also help overcome the lack of personality, just as pesonality can help overcome the lack of looks/body. Realize this fact, and see that if you have a nice body or are well-groomed, you may get some slack for acting in a un-DJish manner.




Use this knowledge as motivation to get a good body.
 

JSH

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especially as as the greeks said (damn i cant remember the greek) but a healthy mind in a healthy body.
 

salthepal

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I agree that fitness builds confidence ..

I have been told by many people that I now radiate confidence, I seem much more capable of looking after myself, and (especially significant to me) lately my father told me he doesn't worry about me or my future anymore ( i always used to get vthe impression that he considered too boyish, or worse, girlish, to move forward on my own:eek:) .

I told him about this, and he confessed to me that he did have this bad view of me, but now he doesn't ; actually he thinks very highly of me ... we started debating, and concluded that my personality shift started right about the time I started going to the gym and building a nice physique; now I haven't told him I joined the DJ forum at the same time, but no doubt that both the extra fitness and nice body I gained from the gym were as important as the ideas and principles revealed to me by the DJ bible and the forums :)
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Yes this is very important!! Good health and good body is essential!



Btw stop calling it DJs... Aprox maybe 5, 10 tops people on this forum is anywhere NEAR what you can call a Don Juan. Most are like afcs, then some players, pimps, whatever
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MacDiddy

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I disagree.. Good Health is a like good looks to a lesser degree. Confidence can be gained through less exhausting means since its all in the mind, it can be achieved through practice and living the DJ life.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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lol, the DJ life. There is no such thing.


Anyways, a GOOD HEALTH, Working out creates a good health, good and more resistant body and it also increases oxygenflow, bloodflow etc and hightens your concentration, psyche and other stuff. It's essential for a healthy body and mind to work out and it's also very good to have in everyday life!
 

Paintballguy

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I go to the gym as much as I can and it helps me out a lot. I'm even talking to this HB8 who works there. Gyms are not only good for your health but a good place to practice your DJ skills.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jason86

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very true. ive seen a big change in my friends shape and with that hes changed as a person too, while ive just been sitting about like a prick watching him. this summer im dedicating my whole time to bulking up. forget girls for now, i need to get myself in check
 
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