From blue pill to red pill in 10 seconds....

[RichardTheFrog]

I realize I post a lot, but I thought this was worth saying...

So I'm on Seeking Arrangement and I see a real pretty girl whose profile says "don't offer me money for sex" and something about "let's see if we click and see where it goes."

So I thought this might be the perfect opportunity to talk to a REAL girl, not just some girl trying to prostitute herself. It says she's from France, so I start talking about that. The conversation goes back and forth for several minutes, like it was going really well. My mind starts thinking "wow, maybe this could be my next girlfriend, she's really pretty and cultured and seems smart, etc." So I ask if she wants to go out to dinner. She says she can't because she has too much stuff to take care of at the moment. I think "darn, I guess she didn't like me enough."

So then I ask what is she looking for on the site, and she says "I'm looking for a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship."

Duh!!!!!! She's looking for money like everyone else. She doesn't give a damn what I know about Europe or France or any of that bull****. She doesn't care that I stalked some stupid girl when I was younger. She doesn't care if I mentally rehabilitated myself or any of that. She doesn't even give a damn about my personality. She just wants MONEY.

Blue Pill ----> Red Pill in 10 seconds. I knew I still had some blue pill in me and I'm glad I recognized this so hopefully I can stamp it out for good.

AWALT and you know what.... ACCEPT IT. It's reality. It kind of sucks (unless you have money), but it is what it is. Women are after resources since the beginning of time and I don't need to overthink things and start reading anthropology books to figure this out.

Does my body language matter? No. Does the way I hold my drink at the bar matter? No. Does the amount of eye contact I use upon approach matter? No.

Money matters.

When I was asking this girl out to dinner, I was literally thinking of DHV stories for me to tell her. That's how clueless I was being. I'm still trying to be "Style" from "The Game" when I need to wake up to the world in front of me to see that girls just want money.

 

[RangerMIke]

There is nothing wrong with Sugar Daddy/Baby relationships. If there is a guy with money and he likes fvcking young attractive women (who doesn't), and he has the money to spend. Why the fvck not... all relationships are negotiations of some-kind, win -- win, the middle aged rich guy gets sex.. the beautiful young thing gets money, trips, fun stuff... it's perfect.

Where sh!t gets fvcked up is when rich dude marries young hot thing.... then half his sh!t now belongs to her. These HONEST relationships are refreshing. It's marriage the sucks for the man.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

There is nothing wrong with Sugar Daddy/Baby relationships. If there is a guy with money and he likes fvcking young attractive women (who doesn't), and he has the money to spend. Why the fvck not... all relationships are negotiations of some-kind, win -- win, the middle aged rich guy gets sex.. the beautiful young thing gets money, trips, fun stuff... it's perfect.

Where sh!t gets fvcked up is when rich dude marries young hot thing.... then half his sh!t now belongs to her. These HONEST relationships are refreshing. It's marriage the sucks for the man.

It's a shame that masculinity, honor, dignity, etc. mean nothing.

Only that almighty dollar.

 

[zekko]

I thought the "red pill" supposedly suggested that guys with money were beta, and that women only really wanted to bang "alpha" guys, who (according to the PUA community) are all jacked @ssholes with big d!cks.

Like RangerMike said, it's all an exchange of value, in one way or another.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Red Pill is whatever "truth" that allows you to believe it's not your fault you suck.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I thought the "red pill" supposedly suggested that guys with money were beta, and that women only really wanted to bang "alpha" guys, who (according to the PUA community) are all jacked @ssholes with big d!cks.

Like RangerMike said, it's all an exchange of value, in one way or another.

If you're going to shamelessly and stupidly give it away, sure, but I'm not that stupid. I worked hard for it. Some birch didn't earn it.

But having a lot of money makes you a high status man. I've seen it many times.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Red Pill is whatever "truth" that allows you to believe it's not your fault you suck.

It's my fault that women are greedy?

Or do you just like blabbering stupid **** out of your mouth?

 

[RangerMIke]

Red pill is nothing more than knowing the truth of male-female relationships.

Men and women are different (duh) but we think differently... what we feel is different. When a man describes how he feels when he is in love, any other man can relate... what a woman feels as love, is altogether different. When a woman feels love, she expresses an emotion of being with a man that MEETS HER NEEDS. And her loyalty lasts only as long and you keep delivering that drug... if it's money... damn right she is in love with you... she really is. If you are rich and she needs money, she will be in love with you and for her it's real... it isn't an act. But when the money is gone.... suddenly (oh my what happened?) what she feels fall off the table.

It doesn't have to be money... it is whatever she needs. Status, looks, whatever.... it might be she just wants a BF... but as soon as what she needs is gone, or another dude comes along with more of what she needs, her emotions will drag her to that other guy. SHE CAN NOT HELP IT, it is the way chicks are wired.

What men feel is a function of what we do: women feel to drive them in directions they should go. They honestly really just feel their way through life. Men walk though a room with the lights on... we see everything, if we like something, well we pay attention to it. For a women it's more like she intuitively knows what she will be interested in and only those things she is interested in (at that moment... which does and will fvcking change) will be in a spot light. A man walks in a room and scans for women he is interested in, he rationally knows what he likes and he searches for that... then he approaches. A woman walks into a room, and she just knows, intuitively what she likes in men, and only those men that she considers fvckable will even register in her mind. There really isn't any scanning, she just knows... to women sh!t just happens.

 

[skinnyguy]

There is nothing wrong with Sugar Daddy/Baby relationships. If there is a guy with money and he likes fvcking young attractive women (who doesn't), and he has the money to spend. Why the fvck not... all relationships are negotiations of some-kind, win -- win, the middle aged rich guy gets sex.. the beautiful young thing gets money, trips, fun stuff... it's perfect.

Where sh!t gets fvcked up is when rich dude marries young hot thing.... then half his sh!t now belongs to her. These HONEST relationships are refreshing. It's marriage the sucks for the man.

I saw a documentary recently. The guy had FIVE sugar babies, and he said was cheaper than having a wife ...

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

It's my fault that women are greedy?

Or do you just like blabbering stupid **** out of your mouth?

Beware the clever insidiousness of confirmation bias.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Beware the clever insidiousness of confirmation bias.

So you're telling me that I suck?

Or are you a little simp who lacks experience and wants to kiss the ads of the women that don't give a **** about you?

 

[marmel75]

It's my fault that women are greedy?

Or do you just like blabbering stupid **** out of your mouth?

No it's your fault you care more about the woman's best interests than your own. Obviously they don't reciprocate.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

No it's your fault you care more about the woman's best interests than your own. Obviously they don't reciprocate.

Whose best interest do I care about? What woman?

I'm extremely selfish as far as I know.

Or are you just talking without knowing me?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

So you're telling me that I suck?

I was referring to the idea of confirmation bias.

To wit:

You frequently complain that all women want is money. Then you look on a sugar daddy site specifically set up so girls can be explicit in their desire to exchange their time for money. Then you're hit with the "red pill" revelation that women only want men for money.