"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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From beyond the end, to your resurrection (Part 1)

Smooth as Anything

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Value is the basis of everything you will read on this board. Value sums up everything I can teach you; value is the alpha and omega of your social life. To create value, you must understand value.

Step 1: Why are women attracted to men?

It is not about how you look, how you act, how much money you make. That is what you see on the surface, and what a girl believes. What attracts you to a women is your value, your significance; your rarity.

Step 2: Rarity? I think I’ve heard that somewhere.

Rarity is value. DJs are rare, we are valuable. If every man was a DJ, what value could we have?

Step 3: Why should I believe that women are attracted to value, and not my personality?

Look at the things it appears women are attracted to. The clothes you wear, your social status, the way your body looks. They are all, in reality, merely value.

Why are diamonds valuable? They are rare. Rarity is value, that which we can not hold onto and feel reliant and secure about, due to its uniqueness, is a valuable which is held highly in our society.

Step 4: Ok, how do I create value?

Become the diamond. Diamonds are worn as a symbol of status, you must reach high status. You must be different; you must be a Don Juan. You must realize that your value outweighs everyone to the extent that you cannot be scratched, just like a diamond.

Step 5: Can you put that in a way that doesn’t sound like you’re a pothead?

Women desire a man with value, society places value on you, so it’s pretty easy at this point. Gaining value in high school is damn easy, in fact. Being popular makes you valuable. Being good looking makes you valuable. Catching on yet?

Step 6: I’ve done all you said, but I still have problems…

You’re not holding your value. What good is a rock that looks like a diamond, feels like a diamond, but still cracks? You must create value, and then maintain it. Raise it to infinity; let your value be your wings.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Smooth as Anything

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bump :(
 

drixsa

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little foggy on how to explain value but i cant blame you its hard to really put words on

having value is really just being an interesting person.

i really view it as that alpha male that everyone wants to be with and see what he is gonna do or say next

having value is being a man, and a good person.

being attractive has no depth or long term appeal
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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clap clap clap...
 

October

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Nice, nice. Bump.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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good post, so many of the new guys dont understand how unique we really are!

Guys, WE ARE THE PRIZE!!!
 
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