"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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from allen thompson the best tip ever ever(about nervousness)

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good stuff, it's all about getting a ****ing handle on your emotions. I've been trying to meditate recently...it's helped a great deal in controlling my anger. Hopefully, I will learn to control ALL my emotions, given time.
 

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Yeah! Now THIS is an article worth reding ANY age. REad it guys! Tyoo bad it only applyes to dealing with chicks...
 

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It doesn't just apply to girls. I'm a very competitive person. Not so much in the sports compartment, but in the intellectual way. I'm president of the debate team and academic bowl, but I'm in no way a nerd. The best feeling I get is when I debate someone I'm intimidated by and actually win. Nervousness can hold you back or make you stronger. It's so weird because when society makes you do something: ex: Read your paper in public, do a speech, etc. You face your fears and do it anyways, but with something dealing with girls we just run away. What the HELL is up with this? This rule includes me as well. Why do we let something like women hold us back. Come on now guys. Don't let nervousness hold you back in anything you do. Don't be afraid of showing who you are. Half the time the girl isn't who you expected her to be. Maybe that's a good thing.
 
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