"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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from allen thompson the best tip ever ever(about nervousness)

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good stuff, it's all about getting a ****ing handle on your emotions. I've been trying to meditate recently...it's helped a great deal in controlling my anger. Hopefully, I will learn to control ALL my emotions, given time.
 
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Yeah! Now THIS is an article worth reding ANY age. REad it guys! Tyoo bad it only applyes to dealing with chicks...
 
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It doesn't just apply to girls. I'm a very competitive person. Not so much in the sports compartment, but in the intellectual way. I'm president of the debate team and academic bowl, but I'm in no way a nerd. The best feeling I get is when I debate someone I'm intimidated by and actually win. Nervousness can hold you back or make you stronger. It's so weird because when society makes you do something: ex: Read your paper in public, do a speech, etc. You face your fears and do it anyways, but with something dealing with girls we just run away. What the HELL is up with this? This rule includes me as well. Why do we let something like women hold us back. Come on now guys. Don't let nervousness hold you back in anything you do. Don't be afraid of showing who you are. Half the time the girl isn't who you expected her to be. Maybe that's a good thing.
 
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