"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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frivolousz21

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Low self esteem women:

hit it and quit it....these women will either be clingy and needy or cheat on you..for there desire for attention. :woo:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lebRambo

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erm...wouldn't that just lower their self-esteem further? I'm no AFC, but it kinda seems like kicking someone when their are down. A low thing to do.
 

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lebrambo? wtf? low thing to do? just you wait until a woman hits you with a ONS
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
Low self esteem women:

hit it and quit it....these women will either be clingy and needy or cheat on you..for there desire for attention. :woo:
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Not a bad tip...but incomplete. Hit it and then quit it, but make sure she knows exactly WHY you are leaving. If you make her aware of her esteem problem, she will be more likely to work on it. This creates better karma than simply breaking hearts left and right.
 
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