Friendzoned when a girls suddenly cries her heart out with you?

[LittleBigOne]

And here we go again,

The girl i am attracted too is walking into the room where i work. So i think, let´s have some fun again and arrange a day and time to cook together. That was already a plan of us together since a while.
But i look at her and she looks not too happy....she starts to cry...about her semi crimenal brother and the problems he causes with her family. Well, i shut the door of the room and let her heart cry out and listened for a littewhile. Told her i am not a therapist and that there is only a little i can do. Cheared her up a bit and arranged a day next week to cook at my place.

Why is she starting to cry her heart out with me??? I dont know her that well, we see eachother a few times a week at work and tease eachother and have fun. Good that she trusts me/feel comfortable with me but when i drove home i was thinking...another girl who sees me as friend/friendly colleague damn. But this time i didn´t had the feeling i did something wrong (killing attraction) BEFORE this happened. Well, next week she comes over, i am gonna bust her balls and want to make clear to her in a positive way that we are gonna have fun and not talk about her problems. I feel anger when i write this, maybe it´s a good drive to make things happen.

 

[handle]

Could be weird exception but very likely friendzone.

 

[DJDamage]

Could be a friendzone or could be that she is a cluster B type.

Usually its not good but I would watch out for more signs before you can write her off.

 

[ezio]

A girl crying her heart out to you is not an automatic friendzone. it shouldn't always be about how to get into a girls pants. sometimes life throws so much **** at you. could be she's burdened and needs someone to talk to. it might be a one off thing, stick with it for some time and see where it goes but just don't let her make it a habit

 

[Spawn_Xe]

i have to agree with ezio, if it's a one off then it can be considered exceptional circumstances. Atleast you know she feels she can trust you with her feelings.. just dont let her become dependant on you.