Friendzoned by girl I like, but it has left me confused?

[Sgthaytham]

Its a red flag, not a sh!t test. Its not the type of thing very high interest women will do. Its possible she is just a manipulative, insecure game player and will still hook up though.

She's an inexperienced woman, though. She's never dated - I don't even think she's hooked up with anyone...

Should I answer her message + photo? Or maybe not?

 

[Tenacity]

Can anyone confirm she has friendzoned me so I can just move on?

Dude listen.......this is the problem with a lot of you guys. You sit here and psycho-analyze every damn thing a woman says. Women say shyt that half of the time, even THEY don't know what the hell they are talking about lol.

Embrace your personality, focus on fun, and focus on moving the chick forward sexually. Either she's moving forward, or not. If she's not moving forward, cycle her out as you should be playing the numbers game anyway.

But stop psycho-analyzing chicks like this. I don't know what the hell she meant to say, either does she lol! Try to move things forward sexually, massage her back, kiss her neck, etc.......either she's letting you pursue or she's pushing you back. If she pushes you back, tell her "Tenacity" said to fvck off and go pursue another woman!

 

[Tenacity]

Tenacity i loved what you posted here but the reason alot of guys are psyco analyzing is they do not realize their own self worth that they bring to the table.

Right and it's also the fact that they don't interact with a lot of women. What are the things I preach on this forum constantly? I say:

- Fix your looks
- Fix your personality
- Fix your finances

The above makes you generically "attractive" to women. Then you go out and play the numbers game. You approach 20 chicks, get 12 numbers, date 6, and fvck 3. The 3 you are fvcking are now considered your "plates". When they fall off, replace them by doing the same system.

IF guys would follow this simple formula, all of the issues in the SHORT TERM DATING market would be gone for the most part. Now again, once you get into the Long Term Dating Market, that's where the Great Depression is.

 

[Tenacity]

I know but its not just a simple formula all the time. Not being needy is not somthing you can plug into a formula.
Most of beta bp comes from neediness and not puting yourself first.
Being able to walk away from a physically beautiful woman that is toxic or not your choice is a mindset.
Getting dumped or having her choose not to want you anymore(not by choice) shouldnt result in half a guys soul being ripped out with a big hole there.

If a guy can figure out how to fill himself he wouldnt be sitting around psyco analyzing anymore. Its endgame at that point. There is no more game so to speak.

Let's talk about neediness for a second.

A guy that makes 6 figures a year in a relatively low cost of living area, will have no issues buying food....Agreed? Thus, in relation to food, he's not desperate or needy because he's in a state of actual, real, abundance (not some fake positive affirmations he keeps telling himself, but real abundance)

This compared to the guy living in a 3rd world country where they are poor and food isn't relatively available. This guy would be much more in desperation of food. Agreed?

So bringing it back to women, if you put yourself in a position of abundance, these "needy" problems go away. The ONLY way to put yourself in a real state of abundance, is to follow the formula I laid out. NOT stand in a mirror and repeat positive affirmations all day.

 

[guru1000]

String pulled, you can “prize think” all you desire and that’s a great start. But once you mature and still have zero extrinsic value notwithstanding a lifetime of expanded paradigms (e.g. a 43 yo broke guitar player who thinks he’s King), your thinking you are the prize has now cemented into delusion.

I’m not above delusional thinking as long as it serves you, which is rarely the case after enough time has passed to have acted upon your expanded paradigms. Authenticity is knowing your true SMV when you have none, and DOING something about it.

 

[marmel75]

String pulled.

LMFAO!!!!

 

[Tenacity]

Just like your pal guru your on another thread blasting "you guys" for the same thing your struggling with 2 weeks ago.

Remember my post?

"Tenacity you forgot to just have fun"
I think you 2 need to sit down and nibble on some humble pie a little bit here and learn how to read situations..

Sir, I never stopped having fun lol. You want to see what's all on my schedule right now?

- Working anywhere from 50 to 60 hours a week (making well into the six figure range)

- Managing my investment portfolio

- Working out

- Keeping my car washed

- Managing 2 "main plates" and 2 "side plates", which basically keeps me having to do various dates, hang-outs, etc., at least 4 times per week.

I'm very busy and enjoying life while at it. Did you see my post in Anything Else with a picture of my BIG GOLD BELT that I just had customized?

 

[devilkingx2]

This isnt fake. You took into an assumption imediately.
You cant fake abundance we agree.
Even if its a THING.


Its not "things" tenacity. Not 80 women not a million bucks. Not a storehouse of food. Its a choice. A simple decision to not dwell in needy poverty.
If somone doesnt see that i cant help that but i will say they are dwelling there thoughts in the material things and not the inner.

Let me ask. If the decision is made to BE abundant how much more great are the things you talk about? The abundance of women? Money? Everything.

When you have nothing 50 cents can equal a million dollars. We agree on that.. but when the choice is made they no longer make or break you. Thats the treasure...because your mind will eat you alive if it doesnt meet its own insane expectations.

that which is hollow breaks easier, unless you wish to constantly reforge your sword, armor and shield, it is best to work on filling the middle part

that is to say, your abundance will shatter when truly tested unless you actually have 3 plates at that time so unless you want to constantly fail strong tests of your abundance solely mental abundance is just a placeholder for the real thing, this is because unless you are truly insane it is hard to maintain a delusion in the face of reality

sort of like how if you onine yourself arbitrarily that you're the prize and the woman is going to be winning you you'll doubt yourself after like 10 failed approaches unless you get lucky unless you really are the prize and have something concrete to fall back on to convince yourself