"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friendzoned but ended up with the girl...4 years later...hahaha

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I was watching an episode of Fear Factor tonight while doing some cardio at the gym(I hate cardio, but I gotta go see my chiro Wednesday as I need a serious readjusment before I lift again), and this complete dork was on with his super hot cheerleader girlfriend(HB9-9.5). They were best friends for 4 years and then he finally got her to go out with him after he asked 3 times and now they are BF/GF...

So I guess there is always an exception to the rule of never getting out of the friendzone, but damn dude, that was a long fvcking time to wait while hearing about how she was getting b@nged all those times and having her cry on your shoulder about how guys were just using her for sex and why they never caled back....

I have to say at least the dude stayed persistent if nothing else...hahahaha
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gotta give him some credit, or a loser award of some kind. The most I lasted was 3 months. But even then it wasn't strictly platonic.
 
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Several phrases pop into my mind as I read this "sloppy seconds" "Settling" "Married friend when sex was not as important".

Dude....this story makes me shudder haha...dont congratulate him for persistance....she used him as an emotional tampon for years and now after shes all used up and has finished having her fun, she wants to settle down with a friend who understands her. Poor sap.
 
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Young Stallion said:
Several phrases pop into my mind as I read this "sloppy seconds" "Settling" "Married friend when sex was not as important".

Dude....this story makes me shudder haha...dont congratulate him for persistance....she used him as an emotional tampon for years and now after shes all used up and has finished having her fun, she wants to settle down with a friend who understands her. Poor sap.
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Hey, I never said I congratulated his persistence, I just said he was persistent...
 
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Ahh I see, I see....yes he was very persistant....sometimes though persistance does not pay off even though it seems to.

Good find Marmel, its an interesting dynamic and sort of a story of caution in disguise.

-YS
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The only thing I see in overcoming a friendzone status is getting laid, even then it could be a pity fvck.

However, there is a difference between being friends with a girl and being in the "friendzone" with a girl. Don't forget that.
 
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