"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Friendzone is more about rank than attraction

backbreaker

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nismo-4 said:
Who the hell is this kid?
president obama.

his dad knocked his mom up and went to the east coast and divorced his mother.

I mean it's a slightly different situation, obama's father is not call at what i would call a deadbeat, in fact obama is actually a Harvard legacy as his father graduated from there but divorced barrack's mom when he moved and barrack was stuck with his mom in Hawaii.

I mean my son is mixed so it's something i notice. for the most part it really isn't that big of a deal. but every once in a while you can see a man look at my wife, and then look at him, and then look at my wife and look at him and you can see the wheels spinning in their head. i mean he's a fvckign spitting image of her just darker so there is no mistaken it's her son.

I refuse to deal with ignorant people which is why you really never see me get worked up about race and stuff like that, people like that i just pay no mind to, people who let their prejudices and superstitions limit the things they do and the world they live in. My wife does as well and she is worse than i am. she will cut off anyone who even hints at anything racist or ignorant or anything like that. but she can afford to. but i mean, if you are a woman and you are 38 years old and you are single and it's the proverbial last call for alcohol in your dating life, as the saying goes beggers can't be choosers.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ilikecharlene

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IMO, friendzoning is subjective. To some women, it's solely about looks. to others, it is as PUA people say, in that the man is too beta and befriending.

as for absolutes, well IMO nothing is truly absolute. The friendzone can be escaped from, but even then this depends on the woman involved. Some friendzone perpetually, whilst others can readily re-evalutate.
 

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ilikecharlene said:
IMO, friendzoning is subjective. To some women, it's solely about looks. to others, it is as PUA people say, in that the man is too beta and befriending.

as for absolutes, well IMO nothing is truly absolute. The friendzone can be escaped from, but even then this depends on the woman involved. Some friendzone perpetually, whilst others can readily re-evalutate.
Yeh i like this man. Its kinda what im starting to see. Not all friendzones are created equal.
 
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