"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friendzone is more about rank than attraction

backbreaker

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nismo-4 said:
Who the hell is this kid?
president obama.

his dad knocked his mom up and went to the east coast and divorced his mother.

I mean it's a slightly different situation, obama's father is not call at what i would call a deadbeat, in fact obama is actually a Harvard legacy as his father graduated from there but divorced barrack's mom when he moved and barrack was stuck with his mom in Hawaii.

I mean my son is mixed so it's something i notice. for the most part it really isn't that big of a deal. but every once in a while you can see a man look at my wife, and then look at him, and then look at my wife and look at him and you can see the wheels spinning in their head. i mean he's a fvckign spitting image of her just darker so there is no mistaken it's her son.

I refuse to deal with ignorant people which is why you really never see me get worked up about race and stuff like that, people like that i just pay no mind to, people who let their prejudices and superstitions limit the things they do and the world they live in. My wife does as well and she is worse than i am. she will cut off anyone who even hints at anything racist or ignorant or anything like that. but she can afford to. but i mean, if you are a woman and you are 38 years old and you are single and it's the proverbial last call for alcohol in your dating life, as the saying goes beggers can't be choosers.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ilikecharlene

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IMO, friendzoning is subjective. To some women, it's solely about looks. to others, it is as PUA people say, in that the man is too beta and befriending.

as for absolutes, well IMO nothing is truly absolute. The friendzone can be escaped from, but even then this depends on the woman involved. Some friendzone perpetually, whilst others can readily re-evalutate.
 

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ilikecharlene said:
IMO, friendzoning is subjective. To some women, it's solely about looks. to others, it is as PUA people say, in that the man is too beta and befriending.

as for absolutes, well IMO nothing is truly absolute. The friendzone can be escaped from, but even then this depends on the woman involved. Some friendzone perpetually, whilst others can readily re-evalutate.
Yeh i like this man. Its kinda what im starting to see. Not all friendzones are created equal.
 
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