"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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vlf445

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Hey, RAFC here, I'm new to the forum and was just lookin for some advice on a friendzone issue.

I used to have oneitis for this girl back in my high school. When we first met I thought she may have had similar feelings, but I didnt have the balls to close and she ended up dating someone a few weeks later. I got thrown in the friend zone after that cause I became a nice guy. We started hanging out again senior year but I was no longer interested so I didnt really do anything to try and pursue her, and left for college a few months later.

After not talking to her for months, she started texting things like "i miss you" , and we began talking again. After discovering this forum ive been applying some of the methods/techniques/etc. Our conversation has become more playful which seems good, and shes much more open talking about sex and even tells me how crazy she is. But I dont know what to make of her doing things like talking about how were gonna get married in the future (jokingly) or bringing up the guy she hooked up with last night.

This would be a fun summer fling if it worked out, but I just wanted to hear some opinions on if I'm moving in the right direction or just misreading the situation. Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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vlf445 said:
But I dont know what to make of her doing things like talking about how were gonna get married in the future (jokingly) or bringing up the guy she hooked up with last night.
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Classic FZ sh!t: the girl flirts with the nice guy to get his hope up, while telling him about other guys she's hooking up with.

A girl who's into you would never risk losing you by telling you such things.
 
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