"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friendzone help

vlf445

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Hey, RAFC here, I'm new to the forum and was just lookin for some advice on a friendzone issue.

I used to have oneitis for this girl back in my high school. When we first met I thought she may have had similar feelings, but I didnt have the balls to close and she ended up dating someone a few weeks later. I got thrown in the friend zone after that cause I became a nice guy. We started hanging out again senior year but I was no longer interested so I didnt really do anything to try and pursue her, and left for college a few months later.

After not talking to her for months, she started texting things like "i miss you" , and we began talking again. After discovering this forum ive been applying some of the methods/techniques/etc. Our conversation has become more playful which seems good, and shes much more open talking about sex and even tells me how crazy she is. But I dont know what to make of her doing things like talking about how were gonna get married in the future (jokingly) or bringing up the guy she hooked up with last night.

This would be a fun summer fling if it worked out, but I just wanted to hear some opinions on if I'm moving in the right direction or just misreading the situation. Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jitterbug

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vlf445 said:
But I dont know what to make of her doing things like talking about how were gonna get married in the future (jokingly) or bringing up the guy she hooked up with last night.
Classic FZ sh!t: the girl flirts with the nice guy to get his hope up, while telling him about other guys she's hooking up with.

A girl who's into you would never risk losing you by telling you such things.
 
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