"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Friendship Zone in Highschool?

i am me

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After thinking for a while, I began to wonder if the "friend zone" is really that hard to get out of in high school. Sure, it takes some luck and "chemistry" to get out, but don't you usually have to start out as the girl's friend to be her boyfriend in high school? Most girls don't just go out with anyone at this age. What do you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jack McCrack

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Just ignore her completely.

I did that to an ex of mine and wished her a happy birthday a year later. She then went on a huge "that means a lot to me, i miss you, my life is so boring now" diatribe. Of course, that's when you turn on the C+F.
 

ohiofutballa

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Jack McCrack what you said has no relevance really to what this man is saying. I think you should put down the crack pipe

Anyways....My Current Gf an I were friends for 9 months before I even thought about dating her...The Friend zone only exists to people who make it exist...If you cant get a girl out of the friend zone you either are

A.)just not that big of a dj

or

B.)you think you want the girl, but you really dont

Simple as that...:cool:
 

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a friend she sees a friend you be.
As quoted by Pook.
 
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