"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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612_Da_Playa

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Has anyone just tried to be friends with the girl instead of trying to spit game? Does it work? Please...I want everyone to post on this one

I mean in the way to become their friend and move on to boyfriend girlfriend
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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immrtlwun

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As in be friends and then try to get in her pants. That has never worked for me.
But just to be friends and maybe meet some of her hot friends, go for it.
 

08aisaac

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Yeah man, it's easy, as long as you aren't too attracted. I know alot of chicks, that I would rather be friends with, though in the end, hooking up, or GF would be nice. lol.

But yeah, everyone needs some regular friends that are girls, because they really are pretty cool to be friends with, but only if they got a cool persnality.
 
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