"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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612_Da_Playa

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Has anyone just tried to be friends with the girl instead of trying to spit game? Does it work? Please...I want everyone to post on this one

I mean in the way to become their friend and move on to boyfriend girlfriend
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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immrtlwun

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As in be friends and then try to get in her pants. That has never worked for me.
But just to be friends and maybe meet some of her hot friends, go for it.
 
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08aisaac

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Yeah man, it's easy, as long as you aren't too attracted. I know alot of chicks, that I would rather be friends with, though in the end, hooking up, or GF would be nice. lol.

But yeah, everyone needs some regular friends that are girls, because they really are pretty cool to be friends with, but only if they got a cool persnality.
 
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