Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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soul71

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ok guys, now i know most of you will tell me just to get over it and move on but i have every intention of having a little fun with this and seeing wher ei can get

ok so the story is this. we've been hooking up for like 5 weeks but apparentally she "just keeps seeing me as friends and nothing else"

so what would you reccomend i do? id just like some suggestions because i do like this girl, and although there are plenty more fish in the sea id like to try and catch this one

edit: basically, this relationship started wiht a bang and its degraded. i need some help getting the power back.

i know im a n00b at this but anyway :crackup:
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dannowillbookem

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apply c&f (****y and funny, noob boy) on her and dont worry about her feelings a whole lot...plus make urself less acessible. she calls you, tell her your busy and cant hook up etc....rule of thumb: girls love what they cant have
 

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so what would you reccomend i do?

stop putting so much energy into one girl. Find other girls you can have a 'little fun with'.
 

Jerky Boi

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Don't worry about her all the time. Spend your time doing other things and naturally she'll flock towards you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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but when you do hang out with her... use kino!
 
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