"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok guys, now i know most of you will tell me just to get over it and move on but i have every intention of having a little fun with this and seeing wher ei can get

ok so the story is this. we've been hooking up for like 5 weeks but apparentally she "just keeps seeing me as friends and nothing else"

so what would you reccomend i do? id just like some suggestions because i do like this girl, and although there are plenty more fish in the sea id like to try and catch this one

edit: basically, this relationship started wiht a bang and its degraded. i need some help getting the power back.

i know im a n00b at this but anyway :crackup:
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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apply c&f (****y and funny, noob boy) on her and dont worry about her feelings a whole lot...plus make urself less acessible. she calls you, tell her your busy and cant hook up etc....rule of thumb: girls love what they cant have
 
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so what would you reccomend i do?

stop putting so much energy into one girl. Find other girls you can have a 'little fun with'.
 
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Don't worry about her all the time. Spend your time doing other things and naturally she'll flock towards you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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but when you do hang out with her... use kino!
 
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