Friends

[jtrain 289]

99 percent of the people in this world are worried about friends In school or wherever I go to put someone down the yalways make statements like you have no friends shutup and many people do shutup because they feel embarrassed and they think they really are losers because they have no friends.But I think that is ****ING BULL****. Who the **** invented the rule that you need people to be happy and to be success. WE came into this ****ing world alone and I gurantee You were leaving the world alone and the last thing were gonna be thinking about is your freinds or people in ****ing general. I think the reason tha most people are like this is that since we were born their was always people in our lives everytime we were never ****ing alone from when we were babies we are all social in some ways even the so called geeks and that influence made us think we needed people to survive but in truth we dont all this made us get used to pleasing other people and forget ourselves all this made us feel that what people thought said or ****ing did to you actually effected us but it really ****ing doesnt. I think this is the main ****ing reason that people Throw away their dreams and follow other people because they feel that other people's lives are always better and in turn they must follow people. I think the need for friends is not natural it is not subconsious the need for friends and popularity and all that vanity is the result of the environment were in it really has not effect on us it's justr so ****ing common that everyone thinks its natural. Truth is i think friends and people in general hold you back Before when I used to think that if you have friends then your instantly popular and all that bull**** so i ****ed my self over for some friends and when I hung out with them it was boring and pointless i still had that empty feeling inside of me Actually when i did hang out with people i felt even more alone because I was so different from everyone but I was just faking it. So to all you guys like me **** PEOPLE alkl they do is hold you back you will never be happy if you focus your life on being popular or fitting in those things come when you be yourself and do what you want to do after all who invented the things that everyone does now it was just another man like me and you he probably didnt have any friends because people werent used to his kind of personality but he kept going and the right people came along and accepted it and it probably be came more popular.This is the only way stop putting the focus on people and just focus on yourself then the people you want will come . Friends just limt you

 

[dot]

I agree but we all need friends we need to sit back and relax.

 

[jtrain 289]

yea with friends that like you for who you are not when you try to be something your not

 

[TheHumanist]

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art.... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival. ~C.S. Lewis

BTW, what you saying is chasing to become popular is pointless, not friends. Surronding yourself with acquantances and surronding yourself with friends are two different things.

 

[dot]

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art.... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival. ~C.S. Lewis

BTW, what you saying is chasing to become popular is pointless, not friends. Surronding yourself with acquantances and surronding yourself with friends are two different things.

There's no other ways to kick back and relax without friends. You can relax a little by yourself, but you still need friends.

I see what you're saying though. It's hard to make good friends. I barely even talked to anyone from school over the summer, so I guess you would say most of them are just acquaintances while we're all trapped in school. I'm making most of my friends through my passions and interests.

jtrain, yeah high school is all bull****. Tariq Nasheed has a good podcast about high school. http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=44823504&blogID=151550821 (direct link http://www.supload.com/listen?s=SX_n8tD9CTb) doesn't look like the link is working anymore though. could just be me. I can upload it if you want.

edit: try this http://www.podcastdirectory.com/podcasts/index.php?iid=19234 #17

 

[Chase12]

loser

you just need a few close friends and make as many acquantances as you can theyre always nice.. (but dont go talking to ppl out of nowhere or ask them if they want to be your friend)

 

[mpimpin]

Maybe next time we make a rant we could include some paragraphs, spaces, hit enter a few times. Thanks

 

[jtrain 289]

I find that talking to girls is easier thasn talking to guys girls are more accepting theyt dont give a **** what you do as long as your hot. Most guys call you things just because your interests dont correspond to thiers

 

[ItWasntMe]

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art.... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival. ~C.S. Lewis

Friendship can be directly linked to one's survival regardless of what some philosophers think. Nature proves this every day all over the world. Lions hunt in packs to become more efficient at hunting, wildebeest travel in herds for protection, ants work together to achieve great architectural wonders (underground that is). Predators go for the prey that stand out, are on their own, are weak, and are sickly. A wolf in a pack will live longer and in a more comfortable environment than a lone wolf. Friendship is associated with being in a group therefore proving that friendship is vital to one's survival.

 

[jtrain 289]

Na man friends will help you out but you dont need it for your survival the ymake everything better but at the end of the day you can do everything by yourself it'll be harder but you'll still get thier. Those animals do it in packs because it makes it easier but that doesnt mean if they did those things alone they wouldnt survive.

 

[sandman6991]

I agree...but I think friends are a lot of fun to have around...I never like to be alone