"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Friends Zone". Do I still have a chance?

j8snx1

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DJs...


...I've known this girl (HB 7.5) ever since last year. I met her during the days where I had absolutely no CLUE on HOW to attract the women, C&F, Kino, intimacy, etc etc. I didn't have much chances to talk to her during those times because we had no classes together, and we'd see each other occasionally over the week, but we'd still greet each other and talk about some school matter. She's chinese and she had a difficult time speaking English then, but she's a lot better now! I bust her balls(or ovaries..?) a lot and used Kino, C&F, but I've yet to get her to go on a date with me.

Even to this day I have been using some of the DJ stuff, not too heavily or lightly, just a good amount whenever I see her, but I want to take it a step further.

We've been friends for a while, and that is what's bothering me. I got nothing to lose, so should I try to date with her, even with the risk that she's already put me in a "friends zone" ?

PS: Sounds AFC. Sorry. Just wanted some feedback on what you guys think.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wavejams007

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Mods, this is a great example of threads to close. Dude, DAFS.(If you don't know the term, look it up like U should have looked this term up.
 

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People come here for advice man. That's the beauty of the forums. Each situation is different, so it's helpful to have a place to get some input, another point of view.

j8snx1, you're friends with her, but you're not just friends until she tells you that.

There is a huge difference, like peeing in the pool, or peeing into the pool. One word changes everything.

:)

Good luck.
 

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Originally posted by tyguy
People come here for advice man. That's the beauty of the forums. Each situation is different, so it's helpful to have a place to get some input, another point of view.

Sometimes true, but when you ask about things that have already been answered and have in depth lectures on them at sosuave.com, you just pollute the site. check my constructive criticism on this site at:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=90601
 

j8snx1

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I do read the SoSuave topics and forums and stuff, but I usually can't find the answers to my questions. I don't have all the time in the world to sit here and check every single one from previous entries, so I post up "obvious" questions that boggle my mind to get a simple answer. If it's so redundant and obvious, just how much energy does it take to reply with a simple answer?

I really thought that the DJ forum was a place to get help and information from other guys with experience, but this is ridiculous. I see too many forums with people dissing and ****ting all over the inexperienced...or AFCs...just because they ask questions about what the experienced already know about.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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