"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Friends Zone". Do I still have a chance?

j8snx1

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DJs...


...I've known this girl (HB 7.5) ever since last year. I met her during the days where I had absolutely no CLUE on HOW to attract the women, C&F, Kino, intimacy, etc etc. I didn't have much chances to talk to her during those times because we had no classes together, and we'd see each other occasionally over the week, but we'd still greet each other and talk about some school matter. She's chinese and she had a difficult time speaking English then, but she's a lot better now! I bust her balls(or ovaries..?) a lot and used Kino, C&F, but I've yet to get her to go on a date with me.

Even to this day I have been using some of the DJ stuff, not too heavily or lightly, just a good amount whenever I see her, but I want to take it a step further.

We've been friends for a while, and that is what's bothering me. I got nothing to lose, so should I try to date with her, even with the risk that she's already put me in a "friends zone" ?

PS: Sounds AFC. Sorry. Just wanted some feedback on what you guys think.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wavejams007

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Mods, this is a great example of threads to close. Dude, DAFS.(If you don't know the term, look it up like U should have looked this term up.
 

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People come here for advice man. That's the beauty of the forums. Each situation is different, so it's helpful to have a place to get some input, another point of view.

j8snx1, you're friends with her, but you're not just friends until she tells you that.

There is a huge difference, like peeing in the pool, or peeing into the pool. One word changes everything.

:)

Good luck.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by tyguy
People come here for advice man. That's the beauty of the forums. Each situation is different, so it's helpful to have a place to get some input, another point of view.

Sometimes true, but when you ask about things that have already been answered and have in depth lectures on them at sosuave.com, you just pollute the site. check my constructive criticism on this site at:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=90601
 

j8snx1

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I do read the SoSuave topics and forums and stuff, but I usually can't find the answers to my questions. I don't have all the time in the world to sit here and check every single one from previous entries, so I post up "obvious" questions that boggle my mind to get a simple answer. If it's so redundant and obvious, just how much energy does it take to reply with a simple answer?

I really thought that the DJ forum was a place to get help and information from other guys with experience, but this is ridiculous. I see too many forums with people dissing and ****ting all over the inexperienced...or AFCs...just because they ask questions about what the experienced already know about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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