I know i have many posts please dont flame lol just looking for some comments/advice because im kinda stuck...With this particular girl
I returned from a date, and im not really sure how to deal with the issue if we are gonna be friends/more etc..
Basically meet this girl at work it seemed like we clicked right away. After couple of days at work. I asked what she is doing the next day, and if she wanted to do something..
So i called her up on the day, we didnt have any plans to go to specific place. So she tells me to come over her place/lives with roomate, she wasnt there (yea i guess first good sign for a stranger).. So we talked got to know each other a bit more and ended up playing cards, we had some food together using same fork )if it matters. While we are playing winks, seemed like flirting.. ( I probably had the opportunity to jump on her but i stayed calm, showing i could control myself)
So while talking i asked if she was seeing someone, she said no. I was like you wanna go out... She said are you asking me out? I was like yea of course, thats what i said.. She said yea , sure. Then she was like i had no idea you liked me i just thought you were cool with me thats why u asked me to do something.
So tonight, didnt really feel like a date i dont know maybe i had too much expectation for first one with her(one of my friends said thatm when i talked with him)... We had dinner, we talked, laughed, told me numerous times how funny i am ( I do crack her up all the time)...Middle of the date we start talking about girls in bars, how they take advantage of guys buying them drinks, i told her those guys are plain losers, a girl winks at them and then they run to them like puppies... I was like i may do that occasionaly when i feel like doing it, but other times i just tell them hey girl ur not special water fountain downstairs. So then she says "Since i like you" i tell u a secret about girls in clubs (blah blah)
Date was ending, she asked if i was working tommorow what time, and said if wanted to come to her place "to meet her roomate".. I played it cool like yea whatever not my exact words but i didnt jump on it like a desperate loser saying yea sure of course right now?, I was like what time is it? She said 11, and started saying damn it is late she probably is going to sleep now(her roomate)... Then said, dont worry you will have plenty chances of seeing her. (or something to that effect)
We walked to subway station, said thank you for dinner, she extended her hands gave me a hug, with kiss on cheek, and said call me. (Almost got crushed by passengers that were coming out).. I was like yea i will, or ill see you at work Friday and we left...
So after all this babbling you ask whats the problem? Problem is im left with no idea where she stands with me do i fall in friends zone, or more ( i dont care i just want to know)..If i ask her out for "2nd date" im very confident she will say yes again
Anything else i can tell you that might help you guys.. ,I heard one guy call our workplace and ask her out, she turned him down, saying but we can be friends lol it was funny.
Other then that she is very prompt with me returns calls, text message when we talk, i dont sense any games playing (she is 26, im 23), she is not one of those teen puzzles where you try to figure out her every step. She is to the point, knows what she wants, if she doesnt like you will tell you that.. I have not noticed any stories that sounded fishy or it was bull**** seemed truthful, honest maybe because she is a older gal.....What should my next step be with her?
I returned from a date, and im not really sure how to deal with the issue if we are gonna be friends/more etc..
Basically meet this girl at work it seemed like we clicked right away. After couple of days at work. I asked what she is doing the next day, and if she wanted to do something..
So i called her up on the day, we didnt have any plans to go to specific place. So she tells me to come over her place/lives with roomate, she wasnt there (yea i guess first good sign for a stranger).. So we talked got to know each other a bit more and ended up playing cards, we had some food together using same fork )if it matters. While we are playing winks, seemed like flirting.. ( I probably had the opportunity to jump on her but i stayed calm, showing i could control myself)
So while talking i asked if she was seeing someone, she said no. I was like you wanna go out... She said are you asking me out? I was like yea of course, thats what i said.. She said yea , sure. Then she was like i had no idea you liked me i just thought you were cool with me thats why u asked me to do something.
So tonight, didnt really feel like a date i dont know maybe i had too much expectation for first one with her(one of my friends said thatm when i talked with him)... We had dinner, we talked, laughed, told me numerous times how funny i am ( I do crack her up all the time)...Middle of the date we start talking about girls in bars, how they take advantage of guys buying them drinks, i told her those guys are plain losers, a girl winks at them and then they run to them like puppies... I was like i may do that occasionaly when i feel like doing it, but other times i just tell them hey girl ur not special water fountain downstairs. So then she says "Since i like you" i tell u a secret about girls in clubs (blah blah)
Date was ending, she asked if i was working tommorow what time, and said if wanted to come to her place "to meet her roomate".. I played it cool like yea whatever not my exact words but i didnt jump on it like a desperate loser saying yea sure of course right now?, I was like what time is it? She said 11, and started saying damn it is late she probably is going to sleep now(her roomate)... Then said, dont worry you will have plenty chances of seeing her. (or something to that effect)
We walked to subway station, said thank you for dinner, she extended her hands gave me a hug, with kiss on cheek, and said call me. (Almost got crushed by passengers that were coming out).. I was like yea i will, or ill see you at work Friday and we left...
So after all this babbling you ask whats the problem? Problem is im left with no idea where she stands with me do i fall in friends zone, or more ( i dont care i just want to know)..If i ask her out for "2nd date" im very confident she will say yes again
Anything else i can tell you that might help you guys.. ,I heard one guy call our workplace and ask her out, she turned him down, saying but we can be friends lol it was funny.
Other then that she is very prompt with me returns calls, text message when we talk, i dont sense any games playing (she is 26, im 23), she is not one of those teen puzzles where you try to figure out her every step. She is to the point, knows what she wants, if she doesnt like you will tell you that.. I have not noticed any stories that sounded fishy or it was bull**** seemed truthful, honest maybe because she is a older gal.....What should my next step be with her?