"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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walkguy

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fellow don juaners , i have a question for you i am friends with a woman who is seperated ( i am married to let you know)
she has 2 kids 3 and 6 and we are just friends she has made that clear which is fine with me
tell me if im off base with this i do go out with her and a friend of hers like to movies , concerts of which my wife approves of because my wife doesnt like going out much which is her problem i guess
anyway she has invited me out with her and kids , to movies , muesums , amusement parks etc
my wife thinks im being used by her as a substitute husband or as a sap as my wife calls me
im thinkiing this woman is beiing nice inviting me to hang with her and hert kiids
is this weird thing for a married guy to do hang around even though we are just friiends ??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WaterTiger

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You're married...and going out with this "nice" lady.

WAKE UP!

This woman has 2 kids to support and she's trying to wreck your marriage so you can be the new Daddy! Why would she be asking out a married man? Why can't she find a single guy?

Yes! You are so far off base you're in the parking lot!
Yes! It's so wierd the weird people are shocked!

Your wife is NUTS for letting you go out with this woman!

....unless your wife is looking to divorce you and is letting this nice lady steal you away. OOOOO! Won't that be fun?
 

Caveman

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This story seems to ridiculous to me it is unreal. WHY would you hang out with this married chick while you have your own wife?

You are being friends with her and that is fine with you? I don't understand. I just don't understand. On top of that: your wife knows about this and tells you you are a sub hubby? Are you trying to destroy your marriage for a woman you are not going to lay???
 
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