"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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walkguy

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fellow don juaners , i have a question for you i am friends with a woman who is seperated ( i am married to let you know)
she has 2 kids 3 and 6 and we are just friends she has made that clear which is fine with me
tell me if im off base with this i do go out with her and a friend of hers like to movies , concerts of which my wife approves of because my wife doesnt like going out much which is her problem i guess
anyway she has invited me out with her and kids , to movies , muesums , amusement parks etc
my wife thinks im being used by her as a substitute husband or as a sap as my wife calls me
im thinkiing this woman is beiing nice inviting me to hang with her and hert kiids
is this weird thing for a married guy to do hang around even though we are just friiends ??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WaterTiger

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You're married...and going out with this "nice" lady.

WAKE UP!

This woman has 2 kids to support and she's trying to wreck your marriage so you can be the new Daddy! Why would she be asking out a married man? Why can't she find a single guy?

Yes! You are so far off base you're in the parking lot!
Yes! It's so wierd the weird people are shocked!

Your wife is NUTS for letting you go out with this woman!

....unless your wife is looking to divorce you and is letting this nice lady steal you away. OOOOO! Won't that be fun?
 
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Caveman

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This story seems to ridiculous to me it is unreal. WHY would you hang out with this married chick while you have your own wife?

You are being friends with her and that is fine with you? I don't understand. I just don't understand. On top of that: your wife knows about this and tells you you are a sub hubby? Are you trying to destroy your marriage for a woman you are not going to lay???
 
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