"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Friends with Bonuses

Dr.Dude

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Hey guys,

I have an AFC friend who, with his high value (he has is own car and lots of money) to this girl, scored her as a friend with bonus.


She digs him (See; Cuddle B!tch with bonus) for sex and free car rides (See: abusive b!tch) since he's so supplicative.

I know he loves her. I know she doesn't. They cuddle lightly in pubic, enough for everyone to remark.

This evening, we all went to a restaurant. We dine, I have a blast. How lucky I am, I get to sit next to her. Great. I'm just being friendly with everyone, and since she's so responsive, I lightly "flirt"(since I would'nt EXACTLY call it flirting).

By the end of our dinner, she's heavily touching my lap and giving me the "Bring me home at all cost" glare. I do not, simply because of my friend's feeling and because she KNOWS she has to be with him since she's moving away, soon. They're friends and she doesn't want to burn bridges with him.

My mind tells me to teach him a lesson, but the Men Code of Conducts says that I should not touch this even with a ten-foot pole.

I decide to let things slide and leave her on her appetite.

What would you guys have done? Cover your friend or head for the chick?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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friend... definitely.

imagine being in his shoes.

give him tips on how to have her chasing him instead.

OR

tell him that shes all over you and he needs to put the b1tch in her place or you're going to teach him a lesson how... by making her chase you instead.
 

Dr.Dude

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Blargh, I'ma just let it slide. Too much trouble to teach him something while I'm still learning. Since I'm moving out of town in two months, I'm pretty sure I'll lose contact with this guy (sadly, as even if he was an AFC, he rocked).

She's moving out of town this weekend, so I'ma be clear on seeing her.

Anyway, good to know that you'd have done the same. To game or not to game, that is the question.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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well, i always think of it as thinking with your bigger head... and also doing having enough discipline to set yourself apart from other guys (staring at a chicks chest, ass, or jsut plain looking at a pretty woman when other guys ARE)

it makes you seem like you aren't trying too much to get a girls attention, which usually intrigues a girl... YOU're different that other guys, one of a thousand. this girl is probably a dime a dozen, and you or your friend don't even realize it... thats why you came here asking if shes worth it.

but good thing you know now.

better yet... hang with your dude and "his" girl... and her friends... and you know the rest... to game or not to game this girl? no way... go for the bigger prize and get all of her friends.
 

Dr.Dude

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Some day, some day I'll have the same mindset as you and become TRULY great.

Now, onward to improve my game... :rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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