"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Friends with Bonuses

Dr.Dude

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Hey guys,

I have an AFC friend who, with his high value (he has is own car and lots of money) to this girl, scored her as a friend with bonus.


She digs him (See; Cuddle B!tch with bonus) for sex and free car rides (See: abusive b!tch) since he's so supplicative.

I know he loves her. I know she doesn't. They cuddle lightly in pubic, enough for everyone to remark.

This evening, we all went to a restaurant. We dine, I have a blast. How lucky I am, I get to sit next to her. Great. I'm just being friendly with everyone, and since she's so responsive, I lightly "flirt"(since I would'nt EXACTLY call it flirting).

By the end of our dinner, she's heavily touching my lap and giving me the "Bring me home at all cost" glare. I do not, simply because of my friend's feeling and because she KNOWS she has to be with him since she's moving away, soon. They're friends and she doesn't want to burn bridges with him.

My mind tells me to teach him a lesson, but the Men Code of Conducts says that I should not touch this even with a ten-foot pole.

I decide to let things slide and leave her on her appetite.

What would you guys have done? Cover your friend or head for the chick?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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friend... definitely.

imagine being in his shoes.

give him tips on how to have her chasing him instead.

OR

tell him that shes all over you and he needs to put the b1tch in her place or you're going to teach him a lesson how... by making her chase you instead.
 

Dr.Dude

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Blargh, I'ma just let it slide. Too much trouble to teach him something while I'm still learning. Since I'm moving out of town in two months, I'm pretty sure I'll lose contact with this guy (sadly, as even if he was an AFC, he rocked).

She's moving out of town this weekend, so I'ma be clear on seeing her.

Anyway, good to know that you'd have done the same. To game or not to game, that is the question.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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well, i always think of it as thinking with your bigger head... and also doing having enough discipline to set yourself apart from other guys (staring at a chicks chest, ass, or jsut plain looking at a pretty woman when other guys ARE)

it makes you seem like you aren't trying too much to get a girls attention, which usually intrigues a girl... YOU're different that other guys, one of a thousand. this girl is probably a dime a dozen, and you or your friend don't even realize it... thats why you came here asking if shes worth it.

but good thing you know now.

better yet... hang with your dude and "his" girl... and her friends... and you know the rest... to game or not to game this girl? no way... go for the bigger prize and get all of her friends.
 

Dr.Dude

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Some day, some day I'll have the same mindset as you and become TRULY great.

Now, onward to improve my game... :rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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