"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I should apologise for reading all this and still be talking about it. I guess I just want to throw all my arguments out there and still know you're right.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's hard for you to understand right now. What we say may be completely foreign to you. A lot of us have come on this board because of heartbreak and getting out life on track. The sooner you realize that we are people trying to help, you can improve yourself. That my friend is the absolute greatest revenge, true story
 

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Jesus healed Mr. blind Bartimaeus. He is the same today, tomorrow and forever. He would heal you too, have a little faith and hang in there brah.

"Can't bring yourself to do it"?! This kind of behaviour/mindset must have been effectual in you receiving lotta sh!t from her during the relationship. No wonder she wants to keep you around for more sh!t collecting.
 

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You know you are weak and will bang her.. Wus. It's not gonna be any more satisfying 3 weeks from now than if you don't.. I'd move on. Because YOU WILL end up walking away hurt because you are emotionally attached.
 
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headFirst said:
You know you are weak and will bang her.. Wus. It's not gonna be any more satisfying 3 weeks from now than if you don't.. I'd move on. Because YOU WILL end up walking away hurt because you are emotionally attached.
This is spot on.

However maybe it will be a good life lesson for this fella to make such a fatal mistake and endure such emotional hardships? He'll learn a valuable lesson that way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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