"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I should apologise for reading all this and still be talking about it. I guess I just want to throw all my arguments out there and still know you're right.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's hard for you to understand right now. What we say may be completely foreign to you. A lot of us have come on this board because of heartbreak and getting out life on track. The sooner you realize that we are people trying to help, you can improve yourself. That my friend is the absolute greatest revenge, true story
 
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Jesus healed Mr. blind Bartimaeus. He is the same today, tomorrow and forever. He would heal you too, have a little faith and hang in there brah.

"Can't bring yourself to do it"?! This kind of behaviour/mindset must have been effectual in you receiving lotta sh!t from her during the relationship. No wonder she wants to keep you around for more sh!t collecting.
 
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You know you are weak and will bang her.. Wus. It's not gonna be any more satisfying 3 weeks from now than if you don't.. I'd move on. Because YOU WILL end up walking away hurt because you are emotionally attached.
 
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You know you are weak and will bang her.. Wus. It's not gonna be any more satisfying 3 weeks from now than if you don't.. I'd move on. Because YOU WILL end up walking away hurt because you are emotionally attached.
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This is spot on.

However maybe it will be a good life lesson for this fella to make such a fatal mistake and endure such emotional hardships? He'll learn a valuable lesson that way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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